im sure you already are, but i would be pretty blunt to your friend and whoever else about not accepting entry into the program without somebody kicking in funding. you're not some emirati prince... you aren't paying for grad school.
these clowns seriously cant find some funds to un-ass for a grad student stipend?
that's peanuts and the whole system runs on grad students working for peanuts.
its gotta be some kind of bullshit horse-trading going on in the department.
when would your official term start? fall?


