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When I figured out that a lot of people are going to spend their better years, wasting away, working jobs they hate every 40 hours of the week and 8 hours a day or longer. That is unless they either have been born with that silver spoon in their mouth or had at least been born with the tools of ambition to develop careers out of it that isn't just slaving away, making people who're not them, richer.

And by the time we're done, if ever we see retirement, we're then told to 'enjoy retirement'. Some at 65, some far older. When we're too frail to even enjoy anything we once could when we were younger. It's a very cruel joke of life, if you ask me. Born to play throughout your toddler to kid to teenage days, enslaved to work through your young adolescent and adulthood days, grow old and weak as you're older until death.

And we're not even fully enjoying it on our way through this path either because of this design.

If anybody calls you a 'deadbeat' for deciding to play games all day or even sitting on your couch binge watching things. You educate them about how "productive" it is working as a wage slave and how deep in the hole it has gotten us in society.

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[โ€“] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Of course there are. I'm far from perfect and fall dramatically short when compared to competent professionals.

However, you're missing the point. I'm talking about people I actually deal with in my life. People, through virtue of the position they hold, that I fully expected to be a cut above the rest of us.

These people have jobs that I personally (and I suspect many others) assumed would demand a level of expertise and dedication that puts them beyond the reach of most ordinary people.

Turns out I was wrong. These positions are teaming with unremarkable folk who seem to have decided that that's what they're going to do and have got there.

Perhaps the real issue is a lack of self-belief on my part, but I don't think so. I'm aware of my limitations, so therefore I'd never seek to become, say, a doctor.

Having dealt with countless inept professionals I can only conclude that they were not deterred by their own shortcomings the way many of us are.

[โ€“] kinship 1 points 3 hours ago

Having been on one of those positions I can say that I changed careers because of what you describe.

Learning is a lifelong path...

What you were seeking were knowledgeable wise sages. They do exist but are very rare.