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So… I think I have 5 love languages now.
You probably do relate to all five love languages to some extent. Most people do. But for most people 1–2 tend to matter more than the others over time.
Figuring out which ones those are can actually be pretty useful.
You can get a sense of this by:
Once you’re aware of the ones that tend to matter most to you, it’s usually easier to express your needs and understand how other people show care too.
Yeah tahts all I got from this.