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People here will literally tell you "I don't want to hear about it" but then complain about the gas prices. It feels like a total Don't Look Up moment.

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[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today -3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The shaming is for the self-awareness that you are know of the problem, have the ability to act, but chose not to care and do nothing. Nature doesn’t care about hope. As far as we know humans are the only animals with a concept of “hope” because we deeply understand that our actions have consequences, good and bad/short term and long term, excel at pattern recognition, keep detailed histories, can plan for the future, and can build or destroy to such an extreme we’ve changed the climate of the planet itself. We know our personal nature has a very ugly side like selfishness, hate, greed, lust, and that we often treat each other like commodities or barriers to our own success. Hope is the mentality that comes from being self-aware of our own limitations and is how we convince ourselves we can do something, personally or collectively, when everything says “it’s not possible”. There’s a fine line between that and bashing one’s head against a wall trying to get a different result out of the same wrong method, but innovation is what made us succeed. Hope isn’t a bad thing, but you don’t need it to attempt to do anything since hope does nothing but make yourself feel better about your odds of success when the struggle is real. Lacking hope doesn’t make you helpless, just unhelpful.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Do you honestly believe I read any of your screeds?

[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

No, you’re apathetic, I assume you can’t be troubled to read.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

IDK. You did seem to recognize that you were getting shamed, so either you took a shot in the dark and were right or you read it. But, I’d rather type bullshit than sit at home like a chickenshit.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Anyone who is writing that much is trying to shame me.

And they also prove that brevity is the soul of wit.

[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

See, there it is! You still care enough that when your pride is poked you’ll take action and defend yourself. You’re not entirely apathetic. Dare I say… there’s hope for you yet?

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

You were attempting to shame me. It didn’t work.

Like I said, I’ve tried to talk myself out of cynicism and nihilism and misanthropy using every tactic that I can and it’s not happening.