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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 years ago (2 children)

There’s a lot of people who do not go through such changes and where pronouns go from he / him to “oh fuck somebody asked about my pronouns what do it tell them” directly to she / her or they / them or whatever fits them.

I presented as male right up until the point where someone asked me my pronouns at work and I was so excited to say she/her. That was literally the Thing that got me to change my entire life, just one person in one instance giving me the space to be myself. Surprised the hell out of me lol

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 19 points 2 years ago

That's such a sweet story, thanks for sharing that!

[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago

first time some referred to me as she/her -- they were criticizing my writing at an org thing but uhh... I'm not gonna lie, I didn't hear much of what they said. I was too busy up on cloud nine doing a happy dance.