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[-] match@pawb.social 9 points 1 year ago
[-] webb 7 points 1 year ago

YouTubers Stop Staring Into My Soul With Your Face Smooshed Against The Camera As You Talk About Computers Challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)

[-] s12@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 year ago
[-] esadatari@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

personally i can’t stand it when it’s something i tune in for only for the content and they insist on putting themselves in there to build their own brand or whatever.

it’s like, “dude i came for the fucking spider, show me the fucking spider.”

the character’s chosen times to smile seems to match up with my pet peeve is ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[-] s12@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

Ah. I see. Thank you.

I mostly watch vTubers.

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Scrolling down there page when the host is staring at you so you can listen to them (and see the bug on the table) without the eye contact

I don't have autism but I've totally done this. No problems with most YouTubers but I find some of them....unsettling

[-] webb 4 points 1 year ago

A quick way to break eye contact is to scroll.

[-] kapx132@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Im afraid of bugs. I wonder why humans are afraid of bugs. is it an evolutionary thing?

[-] goji@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

Evolutionary psychology is behind one of the primary theories, in the simple way that it’s prudent for us to be wary of things that might hurt us. Bugs can sting, bite, invade, cause sickness/death, or poison us.

There’s also the disgust aversion angle, which is tied to the relationship between a lot of bugs and indirect environmental threats (also ties into evolutionary reasoning) like rotting things, or corpses specifically.

In the broadest strokes, we associate bugs with pain, disease, death, and decay.

[-] webb 3 points 1 year ago

Arachnids also include scorpians and ticks, so spiders it makes sense humans evolved that way. Perhaps some proto-spider was a lot more dangerous.

Though, jumping spiders are pretty chill and what got me to be less afraid of spiders. They're tiny, they're adorable, they're really friendly, and for some reason they didn't trigger the same arachnophobic response in me. I have a theory that perhaps jumping spiders fed on ticks and other bugs that ancestors of ours might've had, and so we became less afraid of them. Spiders cooperating with other species isn't new, such as the dotted humming frog.

[-] avirse@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

Jumping spiders have two large eyes, proportionately chunky bodies, and short, thick legs, making them the spiders that most resemble mammals. We're pretty keen on mammals as a species, so it would make sense that a spider with mammal-like traits is less scary/creepy/"other" to us.

[-] Sketchpad01@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It is! Bugs spread disease, and humans that kept away from bugs got less sick, so evolution being what it is, we are now afrade of bugs.

[-] kapx132@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That makes sense.

[-] SternburgExport@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

Kinda. I do get uncomfortable when someone in a YT video makes eye contact but not to a point where I have to scroll down. Looking away is usually fine.

[-] webb 1 points 1 year ago

For me, I scroll so I can peak at the bottom of the video and wait for it to cut elsewhere.

[-] Gsus4@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yea, fuck people and their layers interpersonal ulterior self-predatory bullshit, I can stare at spiders and ants... or most other animals for hours 🤓

[-] Halasham@dormi.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Yep, I feel this. A few of my favorite narration YT channels have moved from being either colored captions or just background to the narrator standing in front of a camera and making 'eye contact' with it.

[-] DaSaw@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

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