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[-] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

I have questions too.
Why are you surprised some very Catholic family members gave your daughter a bracelet?
Did you previously tell those family members to please not give her any religious gifts?
Do you not know what the images represent?
What questions were you afraid your daughter was going to ask?

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Our family members know that we’re not Catholic.

No, we’ve never explicitly asked them not to talk about religion or give us religious stuff. It’s usually just kind of “known” that we aren’t into it.

I do know exactly what the images are. I just don’t think they’re executed well, nor are they appropriate for a 6 year old.

Questions like “Why does that person have their boobies out?” And “Why are they red?” And “Why are they posed like that?” And “Who are the lady and the man?”

She doesn’t need answers to those kinds of questions at her age.

Questions like “Why does that person have their boobies out?” And “Why are they red?” And “Why are they posed like that?” And “Who are the lady and the man?”

I too would hesitate to try to explain House Bolton to a six year old.

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
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[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 7 points 1 year ago

I think I've seen the same iconography in Quake with the flayed humanoids crucified to the walls on some levels.

[-] Therefore@aussie.zone 6 points 1 year ago

My 5 yr old came home from school last week asking about heaven, as at least one of her friends are catholic. It's chilling how little control over religion you have when it comes to younger kids, and it's the age where indoctrination is most effective. It's tough to know what to say...

  • there are tons of adults who think they have the same imaginary friend who really doesn't exist.

  • people look for balance to the idea of their own mortality so they made up religion, then it was coopted by those looking to assume its authority.

  • friend's parents are wrong and their dog/grandma didn't go to heaven cause it doesn't exist.

Obviously not those haha. Good luck though with your little one!

[-] Echinoderm@aussie.zone 8 points 1 year ago

My 5 year old believes that unicorns exist, they are just really good at hiding in the forest. I'm not going to tell them that it's not true.

The best I've been able to come up with is saying some people believe in god, some people don't. Some people believe in ghosts, some people don't. Everyone believes in different things, we can let them believe that without believing it ourselves.

[-] Noodle07@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Believing in unicorns make much more sense than believing in girafes, we just live in the weird universe

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

There's a reason the ancient Romans called giraffes camel-leopards. Even they had trouble believing they existed.

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Of course that’s what I do too.

But I don’t think six year olds need to know what a crucifixion is, nor do I think they should be exposed to torture and murder devices at such a young age.

[-] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago

Sounds like you have a healthy outlook on it. Thumbs up.

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Funny you say this, because this is what I do too.

I just don’t want my kids to be exposed to torture devices and murder, which is what the crucifixion is.

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Haha! Yeah, it’s been a trip raising kids without religion in a very Catholic family. And they have many friends at school who go to church and my son has already had someone tell him he’s not going to heaven.

It sucks.

We’ve already told our kids about the concept of heaven and souls and how some people believe in those things. We’ve gone through a lot of tough questions with them.

But the kids have thankfully never really registered that Catholics surround themselves with images of the Roman equivalent of the electric chair.

[-] FuglyDuck@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Is… that a stormtrooper up on that cross? Or was Jesus mando?

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

He's also got some nice D-Cups.

[-] GuyDudeman@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

She quickly discarded the bracelet, thankfully, and I swooped it up and it shall never be seen again.

But we were like… wow. Just… wow.

[-] Grass@geddit.social 3 points 1 year ago

At least it's not the americanized handsome white Jesus... But yeah I wouldn't give a child a zombie Jesus on a cross bracelet

[-] Master@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Weird mandalorian bracelet but ok.

[-] Poggervania@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Completely off topic, but from far away that bracelet kinda looks like Commander Cody from Star Wars

[-] fkn@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I... Fucking can't unsee this.... Fuck.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, just tell the kid it's a Clone Trooper.

[-] jayrodtheoldbod@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

This looks like you could wear it and should "LIGHTNING BOLT" and it would actually work.

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