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submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Neurodivergent peeps (and also neurotypical folks too, don't get me wrong) get interest policed really really often, yelled at for having fun wrong or enjoying things too much or ‘the wrong way

So this is a PSA to all you comrades, make sure you never do this. It’s like mocking someones laugh or smile, it makes them self conscious and ashamed in the moments when they feel happy

Edit: to clarify what I mean by interest policing:

someone having an interest in a topic or hobby that someone deems unacceptable and takes it upon themselves to ruin the persons fun and make them feel like shit for enjoying it. Like an adult liking lego, or a boy playing with a girl toy, anything like this. It’s especially common for neurodiverse people such as folks with autism, very easy for us to be fixated on our particular hobbies or whatever it is, that doesnt conform to traditional definitions of what ‘people your age/gender/demographic should like/ be doing’

basically it’s like if your friend likes a movie you don’t like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have for no reason other than they liked something you didn’t

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[-] Sphere@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

basically it’s like if your friend likes a movie you don’t like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have

Yes, to pick a random example out of nowhere, if your friend really liked, say, Zootopia...

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

I'm sorry your friend is a lib 😔

[-] BillyMays@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

Anime is still shit

[-] SteveHasBunker@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

What if my interest is interest policing people?

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago

then you're a bastard, sorry I don't make the rules

[-] SteveHasBunker@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

Well this sounds like interest policing to me

[-] astigmatic@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

i have adhd and a bunch of other disorders, i have special interests, i don’t want people to treat me like a baby

[-] Perplexiglass@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago

Can you elaborate on what "interest policing" is?

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago)

someone having an interest in a topic or hobby that someone deems unacceptable and takes it upon themselves to ruin the persons fun and make them feel like shit for enjoying it. Like an adult liking lego, or a boy playing with a girl toy, anything like this. It's especially common for neurodiverse people such as folks with autism, very easy for us to be fixated on our particular hobbies or whatever it is, that doesnt conform to traditional definitions of what 'people your age/gender/demographic should like/ be doing'

basically it's like if your friend likes a movie you don't like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have for no reason other than they liked something you didn't

[-] Perplexiglass@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

I see. Make this about "gaming" and this place will have a real struggle session.

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