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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's a story behind it that's not casual, so I'll kinda shorthand it.

But, I had a patient years and years ago that started out in a really bad state. It took months of working with her to make any progress for a ton of reasons.

But she was the very first person to call me their teddy bear.

Which wasn't really the nice part, it was the follow up.

I laughed it off and said I am/was pretty hairy.

And she said that it wasn't that, it was that she always felt safe and loved when I hugged her.

It was a pretty damn big deal to hear that. Again, for a ton of reasons that aren't casual, I needed to hear something like that at the time.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 2 days ago

There's no better feedback than a patient you've made a difference to. If you only do one thing in life, you've done that

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago

There's several that come to mind that stay with me:

"I love you"

"Thanks for saving my life, you're an angel"

"Your art is some of the best I've seen"

"You are beautiful"

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

“I’m so grateful you’re in my life.“

Still makes me feel…. Just wonderful.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

A co-worker once told me that I had the most unique metaphors they had ever heard.

[–] yumyumsmuncher@feddit.uk 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A workmate took the time to learn a phrase on my native language and told me over the phone "you're the best of the software team"

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 days ago

That's so nice of them!

[–] MrNesser@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Cool shirt dude

  • it was a particularly good Spider-Man T-shirt
[–] XaetaCore@lemmy.xaetacore.net 4 points 2 days ago

"We highly respect your professionalism and we are very happy with you as part of our company and team" First time i really ever felt appreciated at work 🥹 👍

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 days ago

"You're amazing, don't change" from a coworker I really valued

[–] Ludrol@szmer.info 1 points 2 days ago

I have gotten a compliment but I don't remember it as it was before I started living. (The birth was separate event) From the ones that I remember: "You are insightful" by my best friend.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 0 points 2 days ago

"I love you."

~ My mom