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[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

What kind of doctor would that be?
I have never been weighed at the doctor since early childhood.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Woman here, for 40 years the first thing my primary doctors' assistants would do was weigh me, then they asked the date of my last menstrual period. Okay, name and date of birth were in there too somewhere. It's all boxes on their forms. Last time they also measured my height. I've lost an inch, which sucks, but at least they don't ask me about periods anymore.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Interesting.
I am male. So perhaps gender-specific treatment for some reason?

[–] SupraMario@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

No, are you sure you're going to a doctor? They weigh you for medication purposes. If you end up needing some medication, they need to know what you weigh to get the dosage correct.

[–] pacmondo@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

My general practitioner has always just taken my self reported weight

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yes, that also happens to me during routine checkups!

Part of the slightly embarrassing standard questions:
"What's your weight?
Do you smoke?
How often do you consume alcohol?
Are you sexually active?
..."

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That may be it.

I fortunately never needed any non-standard medication that required tailoring to fit to my body mass up to now.

So could just be that I am the lucky one here.
I am not sure if I now should be happy or concerned about it though...

[–] SupraMario@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Very interesting honestly, I've never been put on any medications and always have been weighed when getting a normal checkup.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

So... why?
I am confused because I have a completely different experience and also have no idea what the doctor would do with the information.
Typically he is already pretty busy with more important stuff during the five minute or so timeslot he has normally reserved for me.

[–] rhymeswithduck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Sudden or rapid weight gain or loss can certainly indictate other health problems. I'm guessing you're in Europe? Being weighed is standard practice in the US at every appointment. Maybe it's just for tracking obesity nationwide, or could be for insurance purposes (the provider's insurance, not the patient's).

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, I'm from Europe (Germany).
Healthcare is somewhat different in the U.S. for sure, so that might well be the reason for the differing experiences here...

[–] SupraMario@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

It's for medicine doses as well. I'm not going to be given the same amount of meds as my wife since she's 115lbs and I'm 215. If they have your weight then they can properly prescribe meds.

[–] Bonus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

All doctors. Literally every kind of doctor visit.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 3 weeks ago

Strange... Completely different experience for me.

Blood pressure: sure, often.
Analyzing blood sample: sometimes.
But weight? Virtually never.

Sole exception might have been before a surgery with anesthesia (can't remember, was too nervous).
But I wouldn't call that a "doctor visit"...

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Every doctor, every time, not matter what.

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 weeks ago

As has been determined by another comment, I'm afraid this impression might be a case of US-defaultism.
At least some sort of interesting regional habit, unknown in different parts of the world.

[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I actually really appreciate the weight check at my doctor. I’ll often request it if they skip it.

It means if I remember to take 3 sample weights at home (to make sure I’m not stepping funny or whatever; it’s kinda sensitive), I can verify the accuracy of my scale without actually doing anything. This is important for me because I only use the scale every few months to make sure I’m still within my healthy range (I tend to rapidly lose weight when stressed or depressed)

Same with blood pressure. I have a cuff at home but I rarely use it. It’s good to verify it’s working properly.

[–] 93maddie94@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 weeks ago

My office has it turned away so it’s easy to not look at it, but then it shows up in my records anyway