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happy new year :3

decided to share my fav music released last year.

  1. Ethel Cain — Willoughby Tucker, I'll Always Love You
  2. Deafheaven — Lonely People With Power
  3. Spellling — Portrait Of My Heart
  4. Miley Cyrus — Something Beautiful
  5. Florence + The Machine — Everybody Scream
  6. Deftones — private music
  7. Wolf Alice — The Clearing
  8. Ninajirachi — I Love My Computer
  9. Oklou — Choke Enough
  10. MØ — Plæygirl
  11. Hayley Williams — Ego Death At A Bachelorette Party
  12. Stereolab — Instant Holograms On Metal Film

if this kind of posts are prohibited, sorry 🙏

also, i haven't showered since 2023 😂🎄🥳

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[–] BadJojo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Deftones - Private Music is in my top five of 2025. It just got better the more I listened to it.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Agreed, was unexpectedly spectacular. I hated Ohms and felt that it kind of broke the streak of killer late-career albums that Deftones had been putting out, at that point I assumed they were kind of on their way out as a band. Private Music has proven me wrong.

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yikes that's pretty problematic.

[–] froufox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I can't. It's too mean to be funny 😭

[–] bownage@beehaw.org 2 points 2 months ago

Omg ninajirachi!!!

[–] hellfire103@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] froufox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] hellfire103@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago