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[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 9 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

My controversial opinion: once you drive drunk once, you should lose your license permanently.

You're an adult. You should know better. You probably do know better. If you did it this time, then you'll do it again. More people will be killed by you driving than will be hurt by you taking the bus forevermore. I do not care how inconvenient it is for you, you can restructure your whole life around never driving again so somebody else doesn't have to restructure their whole life around a crippling disability or loss of a loved one.

These are dangerously selfish people and we shouldn't feel sorry for them.

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 1 points 14 minutes ago

All driving kills. If you aren't comfortable with causing death don't drive.

Also, at least in Germany, you are allowed to drive at low blood alcohol. Having a small beer with dinner and driving home is fine. Getting blackout drunk and driving is not.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If you reject the possibility of a reform you might as well just apply the death penalty to any crime, because people can't learn and grow, right?

Oh wait that's just fascist rhetoric, whoopsie

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 hour ago

Driving a car is a privilege, not a right. They might never even serve time in prison. But no more license.

If a doctor was sterilizing people without their consent, would you have him practice medicine again like the fascists did?

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 5 points 15 hours ago

You people are driving sober?

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

it's really interesting having lived in the uk and us. Culturally I've observed...

uk: you've had a single 330ml can of 3.5% beer you are drunk driving

us: you've only had 2x us pints (~1 litre) of 7.2% IPA, you are not drunk driving.

the difference, I think, is public transport

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Does this mean I could have been cool if I was drunk driving up through my 20s? Dang. Missed opportunity.

[–] xkbx@startrek.website 10 points 1 day ago

Drunk driving is cute in the 4-6 yo range

[–] FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 day ago

Yeah, past a certain age you should be drunk flying.

[–] Redacted@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 day ago

Drunk drivers are truly the most oppressed minority 😩

[–] SpruceBringsteen@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You ever do bumper carts while buzzed at a theme park? Would recommend.

[–] night_petal@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago

There's a place near me that is a bar with bumper cars and laser tag. Drunken bumper cars is a blast, but the laser tag sounds like vomit city while drunk.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Your teens and twenties are the time to explore and drive drunk.

insert my 50 yo single mom drunk driving

btw she lives on her mother's (my grandma) house with me