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When women riders and drivers told us they wanted more control over how they ride and earn, we listened. That feedback led to Women Preferences, features designed to give women the choice to ride with other women. Since our first pilots last summer, we’ve heard just how much that choice matters—from feeling more comfortable in the back seat to more confident behind the wheel.

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[–] Wammityblam@lemmy.world 356 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (64 children)

Probably gonna get flak for this, but as a man, I have no issues if women want to stick with other women and I don’t particularly care if I have the option to pick whatever driver I want.

Obviously weirdness and sexual misconduct can occur to both men and women from both men and women, but it’s disingenuous as hell to pretend that men being weird or sexual towards women isn’t the most common by a colossal margin.

[–] Shirasho@lemmings.world 146 points 6 days ago (2 children)

No flak. I was gonna post the same thing. Women deserve to feel safe too.

[–] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 61 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The relationship between men and women (and generally all human interactions) in America has gotten so fucking weird. I agree that people should be able to take personal steps to keep themselves safe. My point is we are so rightfully fearful of each other here because we've completely abandoned the sense of unity in America. Our social safety net, sense of humanity, belief in the good in the world, justice system, and education is so poor it's literally statistically unsafe to be alone with a stranger. It's what happens to your society when hyper individualism takes hold and you end up with a nation of people thinking they are the main character.

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[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 27 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Most of the comments here seem to be talking about the politics of the gender roles, but no one really seems to be mentioning that Uber should only be used as a very last resort. Call a Taxi, a friend, take public transit. Do not support the VC startup trash that doesn't pay their ~~employees~~ "contractors" living wage.

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[–] rImITywR@lemmy.world 165 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Maybe Uber should be responsible for background checks of their drivers and hold them accountable for their actions and be able to fire them for misconduct. But that might require hiring drivers as actual employees. And then Uber could issue company vehicles.

Oh wait, I'm describing taxi companies that already existed before Uber.

The fact that we allow Uber/Lyft to operate as a way to skirt regulations that were put in place to keep people safe, and then trust Uber will implement work around solutions like this is ridiculous.

Same goes to AirBnB

[–] fuzzzerd@programming.dev 34 points 5 days ago (4 children)

While I agree with this, and I'm not defending skirting regulations, before rideshare apps, taking taxis was an awful experience. At least half the time, if you try to pay with a credit card, the machine was "broken", if you wanted to get a ride at a specific time you had to call ahead and hope that a taxi would show up.

Rideshsre apps forced regular taxis to up their game and provide better service, some did and now have their own apps.

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[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 34 points 4 days ago

I get it, but it's sad that society have come to this.

[–] ZebulonP@lemmy.world 102 points 5 days ago (1 children)

As a man, this makes me sad. As a man, I also understand.

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[–] randomname@sh.itjust.works 26 points 4 days ago (9 children)

give men the option to ride with men as well, and nobody will have an issue with this

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[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

As a man I also want to select a female driver only. Seriously here in the Netherlands if you get a male driver good chance it's some agro 20 year old high on NOx who also hates queers. I'm not even queer but I don't want my money going to cunts like that.

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[–] epicthundercat@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Men being triggered by this is so cringe. Ew.

The sad reality is that women have to worry about being attacked... Not all men are creepy but men need to also hold the shitty men accountable too. The "would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a random man" question broke the internet because it was a strong argument and made a lot of men think about who even they feel comfortable with if alone in the woods.... Most men said the bear, too... Idk many men who are deathly afraid of women and this isnt me saying that men havent been raped, abused, attacked. No human should have to experience ANY intimate violence. The risks are just less statistically. Its not weird to try and mitigate violence on any app...

[–] militaryintelligence@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago (14 children)

These fucking comments. Anytime anything is done to make women safer men get up in arms and upset. "What about me?" cries the incel.

[–] BlackLaZoR@lemmy.world 14 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I'm fine with this if they allow male drivers to avoid women clients.

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[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 67 points 5 days ago (30 children)

unless you've actually literally lived as a woman you cannot know the monumental amount of sexual harassment we face and fear on a day-to-day basis. doubly so for trans women. every single moment i am alone in public i am deathly anxious that i could be harassed (sexually or otherwise) or hate-crimed or whatever. and the worst part is, there's nothing i could do about it. the perpetrator would get away scot-free. the cops do not fucking care

however bad you think it is, it's worse. whatever you're imagining, it is exponentially more horrendous

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[–] BillMurray@lemmy.ca 33 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Now add a "Chatty Cathy" / "Leave me the fuck alone, don't worry I'll still give you a tip as long as we don't have to talk" option.

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[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 51 points 5 days ago (11 children)

I don't necessarily even disagree with this feature but I can't help but imagine the outrage if that was almost literally any other group of people.

[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (7 children)

I want to ride exclusively with bilingual Mongolian ginger Zoroastrian jazz enthusiasts over 5'10" to feel safe and demand a feature for me to do so.

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[–] quips@slrpnk.net 46 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (17 children)

Awesome, but they should also give men the option to choose to ride with a man.

[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 43 points 5 days ago (4 children)

There's already an app that does that.

It's called grindr.

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[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 17 points 5 days ago (27 children)

I get it, but it’s discrimination and someone is going to sue them for it.

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[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 5 days ago (14 children)

I don’t get why they don’t just make this a global option. Anyone can choose their preferred gender. Some women prefer women, some prefer men. Hell, some men prefer men.

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[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 25 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Came here expecting misogyny-adjacent comments.

...It met my expectations :/

[–] TheFeatureCreature@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

Whenever something like this happens where women speak out or something is done to benefit their safety, men just love showing up to give opinions that nobody asked for.

You could paste this article link in the most progressive-minded group you can think of and, like clockwork, a significant amount of men will be like "Ok great, but..." and drop some turd of a comment that beautifully highlights just how ignorant they are as to how unsafe women actually feel.

Hannah Gadsby did a fantastic show called Nannette which heavily goes into these topics and her own personal experiences. I can't remember the exact quote but she said something like "If this is all surprising to you then you're not talking with the women in your life."

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[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago (9 children)

So does this mean there is going to gender verification to go along with age verification?

Seems like something that would happen in this timeline.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Here we go, with a whole bunch more trans controversy.

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[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 39 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Said it yesterday about this on a post on my instance.

I drive for Uber occasionally, I am a guy, and got offered this option to only accept women riders. That doesn't seem right...

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 30 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Maybe Uber is trying to start a new dating app. "The best way to pick up chicks is to trap them in your car."

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[–] clot27@lemmy.zip 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 14 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Is there a setting where women can choose a bear preference?

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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 28 points 5 days ago (25 children)

I don't think anyone worth listening about anything would find this problematic. It ain't women casually raping and killing, we all know that.

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[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 19 points 5 days ago (7 children)

This is a good thing if you ask most women

[–] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 5 days ago (5 children)

And if you ask any male uber driver they just lost potentially 50% of their clientele just because they are born with a penis and other penis people are shitty sometimes

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[–] ebolapie@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago (23 children)

i see more complaints about misogyny in the comments here than actual misogyny. Which is good, I'm just wondering what I missed

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[–] veni_vedi_veni@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (17 children)
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