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Whenever I talk to any Democrat supporters, they by-default cheer their Presidents and then I've to remind them of their leader's illegal wars and war crimes. They condemn those acts and they go back to their cheerleading role - Why do they keep forgetting atrocities committed by their leaders? Why do they accept war criminals as their leader?

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[–] Nytefyre@piefed.social 3 points 1 hour ago

"AS LONG AS THEY'RE NOT THE ORANGE MAN, WE GOOD!"

Their entire logic.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 6 points 6 hours ago

Gonna disagree with some of the crowd here and say I think those people typically aren't bloodthirsty/supportive of war. They've never believed many examples of inhumanity have been direct consequences of democratic leadership, and some (I have the Gaza genocide in mind here) they've never believed existed at all. They'll see an "expert" voice an opinion that they're already inclined to believe at present. The "expert" authoritatively cites evidence that they're not familiar with, so seems legit enough. They're not going to trust you to have knowledge the "expert" doesn't, but they're not interested in holding the discussion with you because they don't carry the mythical knowledge that would win them the argument. They concede the point ahead of time to avoid conceding after a debate that didn't convince them. It's not forgetting, it's pretending that they agree with your assessment.

A huge factor is how detached we are from atrocities that don't touch us. I really believe that if one of these people had a friend or family that were affected by this, they would think a lot more deeply on culpability. I lived in Dearborn during the last election and I didn't get the sense that muslims there were more likely to abstain from voting (or vote third-party) than non-muslims. I know this is partially a function of who I was talking with (mostly academia), but I'm convinced that a big factor was that all of us knew someone in our personal lives that had been emotionally injured by losing family.

There's a good argument that ignoring atrocities is a moral failure, but I think most of us can relate. There are so many evils in the world today that if I actually spent time to think on even a fraction of them I think I'd be in a mental institution. That recent exposΓ© on the dogs that were trained to rape prisoners, I can acknowledge it's almost certainly real and that saying otherwise would be an injustice to the victims, but in my heart I don't actually believe it happened because I don't feel capable of managing the emotions that would come with accepting it. If you're already overwhelmed by other aspects of the hellscape you live in, at some point reacting to horrifying headlines by throwing up your hands and booting up a video game becomes a survival strategy.

[–] daannii@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

We are all tired of what-aboutism.

We gotta focus on the present situation.

[–] RiverRock@lemmy.ml 1 points 39 minutes ago

"We can't focus on the nazi genocide we all supported, we need to look forward!"

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

This would be more convincing if they weren't also doing it during the Biden administration

[–] darthelmet@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It's different for different people. At the end of the day, all the status quo needs to continue is a lack of effective organized resistance, not full support.

That said, from some anecdotal experience: Some of them just don't care. Politics comes up with my parents a lot. They're Democrats, but if you talk to them long enough, you realize they're just functionally Republicans who are embarrassed by the aesthetics of the GOP. The problems they've had with people like Trump or Bush have essentially nothing to do with their awful policies and more to do with them looking stupid. They pretty much unquestionably support US imperialism and are depressingly Zionist. Sometimes this seems like it's down to a lack of historical knowledge, but honestly if you push them on it enough you eventually break out of the loop of America always being the good guy to just a basic "might makes right" and "it's us vs them" mentality which you'd normally associate with conservatives.

For example, when I've spoken to my Dad about Iran, his position ultimately boiled down to "They're the bad guys. Trump should be attacking them, he's just doing it in a stupid way that isn't working." The fact that the US isn't merely not waging an effective war, but actively committing war crimes like bombing schools? Unimportant. The fact that we only have the current Iranian government because of previous US meddling? "That was so long ago." The fact that the last time they were told a country we were targeting had WMDs, it was a lie? Doesn't even register. When he said someone should do something about them having nukes, I asked if someone should do something about the US since we have the most nukes and he said something like "I'd like to see them try." The fact that we are currently allied with a literal monarchy in the region? /shrug. When the conversation drifted briefly to Vietnam, he said that either we shouldn't have gotten involved or we should have done even more. We just didn't try hard enough to win... There are still children being born in Vietnam with birth defects due to agent orange. But yeah, we totally didn't inflict enough violence on them.

To the extent that either of them does take an interest in history, it is almost solely through the lens of documentaries glazing the "great men" of our history while ignoring or downplaying their atrocities.

I think my analysis of their kind of politics is that they have enough shame to maintain their ignorance in order to have cover for supporting the things they actually want. You push that ignorance hard enough and the "freedom and democracy" mask slips off to reveal what amounts to little more than support for white supremacy and fascism as long as it doesn't affect them or make them look bad.

I'm sure there are others that are simply ignorant and could be convinced with enough evidence. I suppose I was one of them. How could I not be? I grew up with the propaganda version of American history where we were the good guys, except for the times when we weren't, but those are in the past and we're better now. It wasn't until near the end of HS that I started getting a more nuanced view of history and once I understood that my politics weren't actually aligned with my values, I changed. But even then, the effects of the propaganda are so strong that even today, knowing what I know, I just don't get the visceral reaction to these past atrocities that they deserve. I know they're wrong, I just am so removed from them that it's hard to fully empathize beyond a conscious, intellectual level.

There may be more types, but those are my primary experiences. People who are either currently misinformed or people who actively delude themselves so they don't look like or believe themselves to be similar to the vulgar hicks they view the Republicans as.

[–] fta@lemmy.zip 10 points 15 hours ago

Hm.

Most people my age support Democrats only in opposition to the current admin.

Almost everyone I know that’s my age fucking hates the democrats though.

But people I talk that are my parents age are more pro Democrat (or MAGA, for that matter).

Just a different experience, maybe I live in a more progressive area.

Sounds fucking frustrating.

[–] mrdown@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 13 hours ago

I saw ton of people defending the biggest war monger Hillary Clinton here

[–] RiverRock@lemmy.ml 2 points 12 hours ago

Because they want to forget

[–] Binturong@lemmy.ca 0 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Because that's a distraction from the unprecedented strife and corrution home and abroad brought on by the current and relevent leadership every single day. Just admit you want to evoke past abuses and damaged to distract and downplay the warcrimes, moral crimes, and plain old crimes committed by the tRump republicans right now that demand account and action. The best you have to offer is "whatabout 10 years ago??" right now? Sit the fuck down. People KNOW about those issues, but they actually cannot go change them, because that's THE PAST. Yes they matter, but not more than the country and maybe also world burning in a heap of shambles as we speak. So, quite frankly, there's no time for your bullshit, get the fuck out of here.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

This would be more convincing if you all weren't doing the same thing during the Biden administration

[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 22 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

US has two party system. You either vote for the seemingly conservative corporate puppet war criminal in camp A, or vote for the seemingly liberal corporate puppet war criminal in camp B.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 5 points 13 hours ago

This and people tend to respond to cognitive dissonance by rationalizing / repressing awareness. I've voted for less bad candidate, now I'll convince myself that was actually a good thing.

[–] Homo_Erectus@lemmy.zip 11 points 18 hours ago

Time to vote. Here are your options

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 16 hours ago (25 children)

Because the alternate is literally fascism. Until we do away with first past the post, there are only two real choices. And if you don't choose the lesser of two evils, then you're part of the problem and you're literally responsible for people dying.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

The Democrats are also "literally fascism" and your insistence otherwise is exactly the denialism the question is about

[–] RiverRock@lemmy.ml 1 points 33 minutes ago

"If you don't pull the lever for genocide then you are literally responsible for people dying."

From the people who love to invoke 1984, too. Freedom is slavery, war is peace, refusing genocide is endorsing genocide.

This doesn't sound like you actually believe it, it sounds like you're trying to project the guilt and shame you feel at being tricked into becoming a nazi by a bunch of geriatric Epstein associates.

[–] when@lemmy.world 11 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

The question was about behavior. Imagine if there are 4 children - Voting Blue kills 2 children and voting Red kills 3 children. By voting Blue - we've saved 1 child and start celebrating. The problem here is the behavior of cheering such leadership, by cheering we're burying the core problem of "Child killing" and erasing the acknowledgement of "No child should be killed" ideal from the mind of the masses.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Because voting is specifically a popularity contest, and most people aren't very politically engaged.

Blue is marginally better than red, in terms of trying to secure conditions where actual action can be effective. Summarizing another commenter, you're not voting for good vs evil, you're determining which mainstream option is going to be more difficult to fight against and trying to ensure they don't win.

I don't think you can erase the acknowledgement of "no child should be killed" from the masses. The people who already believe that aren't going to stop, and the ones who don't aren't going to start.

But we celebrate saving one child because, again, it's a popularity contest.

The red voters are pretty stalwart supporters. Their voting habits don't vary much no matter what their party does. They'll celebrate killing 3 children because their party tells them that they were the bad kind of children.

The blue voters are much more variable. They like to think of themselves as decent, principled, thinking people. When you inundate them with the child killing, they're more likely to stay home. And since blue is marginally better for us, that works against our purposes. Ironically, loudly condemning the killing of 2 children makes it more likely that it will be 3 children after the next election.

You're absolutely right that they're ghouls who don't deserve to be celebrated. But we don't celebrate them because they deserve it, we celebrate them to reduce the chances of getting the worse alternative.

Once the worse alternative is eliminated, and there are better alternatives that stand a chance to win by calling out the lesser evil for still being evil, we should absolutely 100% do that. But until then, I don't want to demoralize the voters who can help stave off the greater evil until we have a viable alternative, be it an actual leftist candidate with broad appeal or a sufficiently organized revolutionary force.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

Once the worse alternative is eliminated,

Which is going to happen when exactly?

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[–] TiredTiger@lemmy.ml 15 points 22 hours ago

The most obnoxious Democrat supporters have their whole ego caught up in being a "good person" by having the correct ideological positions. Admitting that their "team" is full of war criminals would directly challenge their egos and is thus summarily dismissed. They are idealists, and thus disconnected from material reality. They tend to be quite caught up in the notion of "electability" - the idea that they shouldn't back candidates or platforms they actually want, but those calculated to appeal to the largest number, which is always smack dab in the center of the Overton window, in their estimation. (Of course, ironically, a true socialist platform would have the greatest appeal were not USians so propagandized against it.) I have literally had liberals tell me that though they are not themselves racist, they need a candidate that would be accepted by racists. I think more often than not, they cry "electability" so they have an excuse for supporting a conservative candidate while simultaneously calling themselves "progressive".

This is to say nothing of the fact that liberalism is a conservative ideology, and that it is more than happy to back imperialism if it means the spoils can subsidize their lifestyle. Or in other words, Democrats will cheer for any war if it keeps their Starbucks cheap and their gas tank filled. They are not anti-war at all. They oppose the appearance of warmongering, but not the actions themselves; they want plausible deniability so they can go back to brunch.

Tl;dr - Democrats are bad people who pretend to be good people and back war criminals because they like imperialism, no matter what excuses they make for it.

[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean it's the same thing when you confront Republicans about it. Both parties have supporters who just want to support that party, and any logic against that gets them in defense mode

[–] quill7513@anarchist.nexus 4 points 15 hours ago

politics as sports will kill everyone

[–] rossman@lemmy.zip 1 points 13 hours ago

i guess not all democrat supporters are historians. we had biases taught at a young age with social studies and stuff. and it's easier to compare presidents to past ones. kinda why conservatives default cheer trump cause he's 'better' than biden obama etc.

like trump basically started a war, and by the time alls said and done. we're way too busy doing damage control, reparations, complex PR and stuff. it's not forgotten but we work on the present.

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