There is no real question here, removing per rule 1.

Not to be a bully to some of these new projects, who people have I'm sure worked hard on, but a few lemmy instances are big enough that they could probably count as their own "Reddits" and have distinct enough "personalities" for this list ...

beehaw.org

lemmynsfw.com

feddit.de

lemmy.blahaj.zone

Gotta say, I liked seeing this on Trust Cafe's FAQs:

Is Trust Café a 'Free Speech Platform'?
No. Emphatically not. Trust Café's mission is to provide a non-toxic social media platform, which cannot happen in an environment where anything goes. We take a proactive stance against hate speech, harassment, and misinformation.

If by "Reddit" you mean internet discussion forums, I guess? It's a super simplistic way to look at things.

Tildes, for example, is pretty clear that they are not and do not want to become another "Reddit".

Man, I've seen this post like 4 times now

My impression of squabbles after a while was more "feigned whimsy reddit". The people who loved the quirky snu aspect of reddit found their way there. "Oh look, he's wearing a box on his head with a face hole cut out! Ha ha!" - "He's holding a plate with a piece of birthday cake in one hand and a saxophone in the other! What a whacky character!!!" - "He's piloting a rocket ship! Space is amAAAAAzing!!!"

The dev seemed like he was impressively dedicated to improving the platform, but I didn't jive with what I perceived at the time to be the emerging culture there. Nothing offensive about it, but that's not at all what I'm looking for really. I haven't been there any type of regularly for a couple weeks, so not sure if that's still a thing.

Also, I don't pay strict attention to what instances they're coming from, but I've blocked many communities throughout the fediverse that spam memes like they're running out of time or something. I don't think squabbles exclusively lays claim to that type of behavior.

Just my opinion.

beehaw - tight-knit diverse, lgbtq and positivity reddit

Has tildes said when they will change their restrictions? Would love to try it but as far as I know it's invite only.