Calling someone's AR military grade is a pretty good insult!
20 miles one way is going to be a rough commute to start. I agree with other comments about riding for fun to get the setup right for you and build endurance
I don't know if this is feasible for you but maybe get a bike rack and drive part way, park somewhere public and ride the rest of the way in?
Your comment reminded me of number stations. They are radio broadcasts with seemingly random numbers getting transmitted every now and then. A well known one is "The Russian Buzzer"
They are really long range, and just about anyone can listen in to these transmissions. But only a tiny number of people (in the buzzer's case maybe Russian spies) know the meaning and act on those signals.
I guess my point is that ultimately nobody can really stop the signals, including dog whistles. And I think it's silly when people try to make some of those words taboo. For example if "roommates" is a code word for a queer couple living together the legit use of the word doesn't just disappear
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last I heard everything is a dog whistle for everything
hoo?
Good ole Baghdad Bob, the OG "this is fine" guy
Gotta get that cloud concentrate
literally me. The one time in like 6 months that I wanted to print something
"checkmate atheists!"