It may not be exactly what you're asking for, but someone on Lemmy made a 2025 reality check website to help.
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Officially named Pussyhats, they were first worn symbolically at the 2017 US Women's March in Washington DC. Created by Krista Suh and Jayna Zweiman (who met at an LA knitting club), the hat was made in direct response to grab em by the pussy remark from tdump. The original idea was for marchers to knit, sew, or crochet hats to create a visual statement —a sea of pink. "If everyone at the march wears a pink hat, the crowd will be a sea of pink, showing that we stand together, united," reads the introduction to the knitting pattern on the Pussyhat Project website. The actual hats were created by people who could not attend physically, but wanted to show their support.
Since then, some have come out against it as any one symbol isn't as all encompassing as they would like, but none have yet given or inspired a good replacement for such a strong show of women's solidarity.
Ah, yes, lying to your face for multiple years over a legitimate concern is exactly what a strong relationship foundation looks like. /s
You say you need to forgive and forget, but that puts the onus on you to do all the heavy emotional lifting. They are the ones who messed up. They are who needs to step up to continuously demonstrate that they have changed. If you choose to stay consider acknowledging and navigating with eyes wide open instead of brushing it under the rug of blanket forgiveness.
You call him an angel, but do remember that Lucifer/the devil was also once an angel.
Trust your gut and move on. Death by 1000 papercuts is still death. The trust with him is already gone because of their actions and literally years long deceit. If they cared about you, they would have already made you the priority and honored/validated your concerns about their 'friends' for the last two years. Not just when they can't cover their tracts anymore (you moving in together) and hope they have you cornered/worn down enough for you to give in easily to their faults. If they cared they wouldn't gaslight you into thinking you're crazy/jealous over something that ACTUALLY happened. Do not let them sway you with this sunk cost fallacy. Take your efforts and energy to where they are appreciated. You deserve to be treated better. They know it and your stomach knows it.
Wishing him a very happy birthday!
(Current experience) What flavor is his birthday cake/dessert?
(Past experience) Specific- He would have spent 3 birthdays in camp. I assume that no one mentioned their birthday passing so as to not attract their captors attention. Is that accurate?
I'm unfamiliar with some of these flags.
(read: right to left, top to bottom)
- Q-Anon
- Confederate
- Oath Keepers
- ?
- ? Republican in name only??
- Hitler's Nazi Swastika
- Proud Boys
- ?
- ?
- ? Third Reich??
Pump it up a little more, get the party going on the dance floor!
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I mean wouldn't you want to separate yourself from people who put you in essentially an abusive prison/lockdown camp for nearly a year because they didn't bother trying to help you with your ADHD?
Paris Hilton shares story of traumatic abuse while testifying before congress
'Stolen' exposes horrors of pricey rehabs for troubled teens
Or is it just the typ?