[-] sappho@hexbear.net 39 points 2 months ago

They made it so much worse. Essentially any person you encounter (the language says "occupant" of a public or private space iirc) can legally require you to remove your mask.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 36 points 2 months ago

It's really fascinating to me that this is what people make when the barrier to artistic creation disappears. It reminds me of some Youtuber books - they're written by people with no literary skill or experience, but they produce them because they've gotten popular enough that the books are a profitable endeavor regardless of quality. Until you read a Youtuber book you don't consciously realize what is necessary to write a book, because usually, mostly, only people who have that ineffable something do write novels. And here: you don't realize what is needed to actually create art and not just images, until you see people with no artistic literacy or skill produce what they think of as art.

Visual art and literature are windows to the soul, and normally only a certain type of person goes through the effort to open that window for us. Here, and in Youtuber books, you can see inside a completely different type of person. And their soul looks like waifus and cowboys.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 32 points 2 months ago

I'm sure it will be fine. It's not like we let every single human on the planet get infected multiple times with a disease that directly damages the immune system.

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Over three days on Zoom, the course taught the ritual that forms the basis of the programme. Every time you experience a symptom or negative thought, you say the word "stop", make a choice to avoid these symptoms and then do a positive visualisation of a time you felt well.

You do this while walking around a piece of paper printed with symbols - a ritual the BBC was told to do as many as 50 times a day.

This costs £1000. Their target market is people who are often far too sick to work, and who have extreme difficulty accessing disability benefits due to the politicized nature of long covid.

In some cases the Lightning Process has encouraged participants to increase their activity levels without medical supervision, against official advice - which could make some more unwell, according to NHS guidelines.

A large proportion of people with long covid, and many of the most severely affected, have ME/CFS, which is a disorder of cellular energy production. People with ME/CFS deteriorate with overexertion, and for most this is irreversible.

The only way to manage this and prevent ongoing decline is pacing, which refers to a practice of monitoring your body for symptoms and restricting activity before it becomes too much. This is exceptionally difficult to practice from a psychological standpoint. It's also the exact opposite of what this process programs people to do.

High quality article on long covid fatigue here for those interested - archive link

The coach on the course stressed the importance of avoiding negative thoughts and words like "pain" and "fatigue", claiming using them can continue symptoms.

When we put these specific claims to Dr Parker [founder of this program], he said our questions seemed to be "informed solely by the rumours and misinformation" circulated by what he called "anti-recovery activists".

I have noticed that people in positions of power who push psychological therapies for neglected physical diseases like ME/CFS often use language like this - they speak of "rabid advocates" who "attack them." In general these types maintain that these patients, who almost without exception are not able to access any medical care for their illness, simply "don't want to get better" because of "secondary gains" (e.g attention, disability benefits) of being sick.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 38 points 3 months ago

I feel this is the first of many laws like this. I haven't felt this deeply crushed, hopeless, and afraid for a very long time. It's hard to keep going when your life is so small and everyone in power is bent on making it even smaller. I don't know how I will do it, and sometimes I wish I wouldn't keep trying.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 34 points 3 months ago

Kalimbas are cool. Cheap and they sound lovely like a music box even if you don't know what you are doing. The sound is so nice that my cat has several times fallen asleep right beside me while I've played

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 62 points 3 months ago

Ugh, this gets right to a massive pet peeve of mine regarding mainstream climate change coverage. This relentless fucking fixation on having hope, the absolute strident necessity that we all feel the "correct way" about what approaches us. It's toxic positivity. It's emotional policing.

All of these people are terrified of death and they have no idea what hope even is! Yelling at some teenager grieving the destruction of the biosphere, "Be more optimistic! Look at the cool tech!" - it's not just ineffective, it's the literal opposite of helpful.

Hope isn't optimism! Hope isn't believing that we will win. Hope is when you've gone fully into despair and then find yourself, somehow, still alive there. This facade of positivity they call hope will break at the first sign of stress; that's why they push it so hard, insisting we all perform optimism as well, propping up their fragile feelings for them. I just want to shout it in their faces: You can't have hope without death! You can't have peace without grieving! Fuck you, start weeping!

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 31 points 3 months ago

Yeah, this is an important point. People change, especially over a time span like eight years. You aren't just picking up where you left off. You are meeting new versions of each other.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 27 points 4 months ago

There is a major oversight here that precludes proper representation. Chocolate is not a type of milk, it's a characteristic of milk.

Sincerely, a chocolate almond and chocolate soy milk enjoyer.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 51 points 5 months ago

This article was posted on the husband's birthday. He's been liking replies supporting him on Twitter. This is a form of abuse and I hope he leaves.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 61 points 5 months ago

Anne's hope is to provoke her husband into beating her badly enough to besmirch him in the eyes of the public - a classic womanly strategy of provocation that her husband has fallen for.

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 35 points 5 months ago

See, I was gonna go to a therapist for 150+ sessions to work through my religious trauma from my very Catholic upbringing. But luckily I realized I was just being an edgy atheist about it. Saved me so much time!

[-] sappho@hexbear.net 28 points 6 months ago

I physically can't fucking leave because I started renting a third floor apartment when I was still able to move pretty well with long covid, and now I'm way worse and there's no elevator lol. Those stairs will wipe me out for days so yeah, I haven't left in maybe a year or two now. Maintaining the ability to walk to the toilet is higher on my priority list

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