Didn't have a chance to write up a detailed post, either on a fruit or the topic I was originally thinking about. I think they're neat and they taste good.
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Chat.... The date did NOT go well, we had a lot in common, had good conversation, and he was really attractive, but near the end he basically just came out and said he was 'dating' multiple people and wasn't looking for a serious relationship, in spite of the fact that I literally told him that I was looking for a serious, monogamous, relationship beforehand. ๐๐๐๐๐ Then he, very clumsily, all but asked when we should meet up for sex cuz he 'doesn't like going on too many dates and becoming friends with the person' - his words ๐
Fucking epic. At least this was the normal kind of guy being an asshole instead of the transphobic kind. I actually kinda appreciate that he treated me poorly in the same way he treats his cis-women dates! XDDDD
Dudes rock.
And another day that Iโm glad that Iโm
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Iโm sorry you have to deal with those pieces of shit.
Trust me, I'm sorry too... ๐
the most massive red flag of all time good lord. even aside from the fact that he met up with you under false pretenses
he did you a favor by saying it directly and letting you know what kind of person he was at least so you didn't waste your energy.
how frustrating!
Really sorry to hear that he turned out to be shitty and kinda gross.