this post was submitted on 15 Aug 2025
36 points (100.0% liked)
hexbear
10494 readers
1 users here now
Hexbear Meta Community
Posts should be a a Proposal (idea for changing the site), Feedback (regarding non-technical aspects of the site, for technical please use https://hexbear.net/c/feedback), or Appeals (regarding admin/moderator actions).
Discussion regarding these will be within comments under the post, appeals and feedback that is resolve may be removed as well as duplicate posts.
The following behavior will result in mod action:
-
People that are frequently making vague posts or comments.
-
People that are hostile, taking the least charitable interpretation or engaging in bad-faith
-
People that are maliciously trying to stir up drama
founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
maybe having "any except " as a gender in list one and then you pick whatever not-one in list two? i do think it gets rapidly way too complicated to be concise about and being (relatively, i suppose, are you the longest list?) concise about it like the way we have now is important for people reliably seeing and using our pronouns.
on the other hand, having the not-pronoun next to the name might have people using it because they see that and don't parse the negation and that could be a bad day for folks.
A better alternate phrasing might be "do NOT call me", but it still opens up the possibility of "sorry, I just misread it" as an excuse I worry.