Day by day I begin to wonder more and more if I can even call myself a communist anymore. Its becoming hard to really reconcile my faith with communism if the ideology itself is theorically opposed to it. Bukharin's book, "ABCs of Communism," has an entire section on Chapter 11 that directly talks about why religion and communism are incompatible. Communists believe history is driven by class struggle and material conditions. Religious people believe in stuff like divine intervention or divine will. A communist would probably look at islam (my faith) and be like "No prophet was sent a message by God and acted upon it, it was their material conditions that made them act." I don't see how one could believe both, it feels like its either or.
Sure, it is perfectly possible for religious people to largely agree with Marxists on such things as historical materialism and present-day class struggles, not to mention struggles for national liberation, against racism, etc. It is possible be anti-capitalist and fight for a classless, moneyless, and stateless society where MOP is colletively owned but at the end of the day, there is philosophical tension.
I feel at best, I can be an ally, but the way I see it, I will never be one of them. I do not belong. My voice does not count equally and my beliefs make me suspect. I have faced hostility from leftists that are atheist and hostile towards religion and been called a revisionist. If this is how me and others are gonna be treated just because of our faith, I'd rather die than simply be used as cannon fodder in a revolution.
what you've described is clearly understood as an exception to the rule rather than an expression of it if you read through china's basic policy on religion and religious practices, otherwise known as document 19 (eng, baidou page).
regarding religious policy towards the masses, it states (quoting from the english translation, but you can check the original if you'd like):
i.e. the masses are allowed to believe whatever they want so long as they are not forced to as children, there are no material consequences for believing in this or that, etc. notably, it states that "we communists are atheists and must unremittingly propagate atheism."
regarding ideological unity regarding atheism in the party, it states in no uncertain terms:
i.e. dialectical materialism is explicitly atheist and anyone who continues to be a theist should be removed from the party. however, there is an exception made for ethnic minorities for whom all members are religious:
what is the party's policy regarding these members? to allow them to be religious for the time being so as not to alienate the party from the masses, but to continue to do ideological work on these party members with the eventual goal of having them become atheists (either individually, or as an entire subgroup gradually over time):
furthermore, those with relatively lower levels of belief in religion should be prioritized over those with relatively higher beliefs:
so, yes, exceptions are made for ethnic minorities that are entirely religious, but these exceptions are still relatively less religious and are guided towards atheism. the fact remains that the CPC remains a staunchly atheist organization, sees atheism as a fundamental part of dialectical materialism, and, with these exceptions in mind, enforces strict ideological unity within the party. we should follow the CPC's guidance in the west by doing the same. saying this or that ethnic minority is entirely religious and should therefore be an exception to this rule is entirely different than interpreting the exception to the rule as the rule itself. it certainly does not apply to the majority of people in the west.
Which requires establishing an actual vanguard party and winning a revolution, and none of that is going to happen if participants are required to resolve their cognitive dissonance before there is even a body worth being a member of.
Even at the stage they're at, China is still doing it extremely patiently. What OP describes they're experiencing from others is nothing like that, and I stand by "fuck 'em".
Anyone who thinks that a Marxist movement could take hold in the US while not only ignoring the faith of all the self-identifying Christians in the US but also actively declaring they'll all be fixed is delusional. It's armchair revolutionary chucklefuck thought.