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I forgot that it's my mega week so no big info dump this time. Instead I bring a question: how do you practice gender self-care? Do you have any activities or rituals that make you feel more comfortable in your gender? Painting my nails and taking care of my hair are the most consistent ones. These shouldn't even be considered gendered activities by society, but I missed out on having long hair and painted nails when I was younger because of my assigned gender, so doing them now feels validating and gives me confidence.
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Mom is so worried about me having to take anti-depressants and side-effects and it being bad for me that she can't see she is the biggest reason I need them.
just venting cw: general lgbtphobia, sex
I feel like I have to hide myself to go out like I want to, sneak around and stuff, this is awful. Can I just dress however I want to and not have to hide the fact that I'm doing so? Can you please let me be myself openly? You seem so worried about the fact that I need anti-sad pills, but are you not worried WHY I'M SAD??I was trying to go out with people, but this might not work for now. I need to move out I think... Or try to have another talk with her It's just so exhausting having to
I wish I could just do like cis het couples and go wherever, have dates and not be afraid to be myself in public, then take someone home or go to their house and it be all ok, no questions and no need for excuses. My sister could date a guy and just be ok, why can't I date a trans woman and be ok like seriously this shit just irks me so much AAAAAAAAAAAAA