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Flying boats are fixed-wing aircraft with hulls like boats, allowing them to land on water instsead of runways. Lakes, seas, reflecting pools, you name it.

In the early history of flight this kind of thing was popular because there were a lot of places without runways and airstrips, and a lot of those that did exist were too small to accomodate larger, long-distance airplanes. There were other advantages too - because their size wasn't limited by the length of runways, they could be built to an impressive size, and had longer range than land-based airplanes. I imagine it was also comforting to be able to land safely on the water in case of mechanical problems.

I think my favorite flying boat is the Dornier Do X (pictured in the thumbnail) which was made in the 1920's. In addition to seats for about a hundred passengers, its three decks contained an onboard kitchen, a dining room, multiple bathrooms, and a bar. Each nacelle on the top has two engines, for a total of twelve. There's just something magnificent about it.

In the 21st century flying boats are quite rare, although there are a few models used for fighting wildfires. The CL-415 Super Scooper for example, can skim the surface of a lake or reservoir for a few seconds and take in more than six thousand liters of water without stopping!

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

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Idk how to deal with this. I want my brother over. But he's got his own life and friends that he wants to spend time on over there. If he knew what I was going through he'd come over out of obligation. But that's just a shitty and selfish thing to inflict upon on him. No I'm not asking for approval from y'all to tell him. I'm just venting.

It reminds me strangely of rakhi. It's an Indian tradition where sisters tie bracelets on their brothers, in exchange for a promise of being "protected". In the end, since I never tied any bracelets, I'm not going to have anyone come and help me. It's only fitting.

Also, funnily enough, I always ended up ripping off the bracelets cause I found them annoying (they're impossible to remove otherwise, and people keep em on for months. This was foreshadowing of how I would sever my familial relations.

Or maybe it's another foreshadowing of being trans cause I was the only who ripped em off and they're a symbol of being a brother

[–] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

In hindsight i think a lot, if not most of the struggles with my family were shaped by them viewing me as somebody i was not and expecting me to behave in ways that i felt deeply uncomfortable with for reasons i did not understand at all. Coming out has actually made some of that much easier, once my mother had stopped fighting and accepted the reality of having a daughter we got along much better than when she expected me to be her eldest son. I think stuff like that is a very central part of trans biographies, and it would be a huge help to understand which gendered biases got in the way of having a good relationship with each other.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Well. Mom did always insist on me being the son. The eldest son in my entire generation. At every family festival I was notably distant (I've heard this from so many people it's crazy). And all of these festivals were gendered so maybe that was it. The festivals mind you were ridiculously gendered. The men and women typically separated, working on completely different things.

But honestly I was probably more so lashing out at the obvious target to cope with my dysphoria. It was this unexplainable pressure that made me suffocated. Dad always listened to mom. She was the bigot of the house and still takes that role today.

my mother had stopped fighting and accepted the reality of having a daughter we got along much better than when she expected me to be her eldest son.

On some level I don't want my relationship with family to be fixed.

On some level I don't want my relationship with family to be fixed.

Which is completely fair. If you find that this is irreconcilable for you, then that's how it is. I am not exactly close to my family either, and there are parts i have gone completely no contact with due to absolutely unhinged amounts of transphobia that i will just not expose myself to. And while i do get along ok with my closest relatives, and like them, it takes so many spoons to be at family functions. I feel more at home with my found family then i have with anybody else i've known before coming out. It's important to be around people that get me, i've been misunderstood all my life and i am tired of that. I do not need to put up with that more than necessary, it's a waste of time.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 2 points 7 hours ago

real as fuck, i just posted about this. i was always awkward and uncomfortable playing that role and its bleeding into now even though i am her daughter now, i think my current issue is being deadly fucking scared of going back to how i grew up. i’m so happy to hear it’s a common experience