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Keep track of your spending. Find simple and cheap things you like. There's hours of entertainment at the free public library. There's free meetups all over.
I had a friend that ordered food delivery for every meal. That's like $25k/year on food, in $35 chunks. Don't do that. Don't aspire to that.
Use thrift stores, buy nothing groups, freecycle, yard sales etc. I got most of the furniture for my first apartment for $230 (inflation adjusted) when I first moved out. Couch, table, chairs, dresser. The couch didn't survive the next move, but everything else is solid.
You can probably salvage an old computer by putting Linux on it rather than shelling out for a new one. I saved my friend a lot of money reviving their ancient laptop like that.
Some people have this idea that spending money frivolously or conspicuously is cool. They're assholes and fools.
Keep in touch with friends. Most of my jobs I got because I knew someone. The job process is broken, run by idiots and slop machines.
If living with your parents isn't driving you crazy, don't worry about it. Save the money.