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[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I assume we are talking about third person pronouns, mostly singular, possibly plural (like in French which has gendered ils/elles). First and second person (I, you, we) aren't gendered in (most?) western languages anyway.

It could go multiple ways:

  • Just one set of third person pronouns for everyone, equivalent to English they/them. The fewer different pronouns you have, the harder it is to talk about multiple people at once but in principle, it works. After all, nobody keeps you from talking about five men who all use he/him in English, you just have to add more specifiers or names to differentiate.
  • A distinction based on proximity. One set of pronouns for a person near the speaker, one for a person near the listener and one for a person somewhere else. Japanese does something similar for things (これ kore, それ sore, あれ are) but as far as I know, not for people. For an example in English, imagine equivalents to this and that which are personal pronouns instead of demonstratives.
  • A distinction based on age. Different pronouns for children, adults, elderly or relative to the speaker's age.
  • A distinction based on familiarity. One set of pronouns to refer to close friends and family, one for acquaintances, one for strangers.
  • A distinction based on status and respect. A bit similar to what Japanese does with honorific name suffixes but in pronoun form.
  • One of the conlangs I'm occasionally working on has pronouns based on the shortened form of names: the first syllable of the person's name plus a suffix. Plus one set of pronouns for if you don't know (or don't want to mention) a person's name.
[–] zaphod@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 days ago

One of the conlangs I’m occasionally working on has pronouns based on the shortened form of names: the first syllable of the person’s name plus a suffix.

You can see something like this in German sometimes. We usually don't publish full names for criminals or victims of crimes, you often only get the first name plus first letter of the last name like Zaphod B., in the following text the person is then referred to as B.

[–] enemyofsun@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

A distinction based on age. Different pronouns for children, adults, elderly or relative to the speaker's age.

That's the one I thought about after posting.

A distinction based on status and respect. A bit similar to what Japanese does with honorific name suffixes but in pronoun form.

It could actually be the evolved version of the age-based pronouns. The pronouns for older people become the pronouns for respectable individuals and stuff like that.

A distinction based on proximity. One set of pronouns for a person near the speaker, one for a person near the listener and one for a person somewhere else. Japanese does something similar for things (これ kore, それ sore, あれ are) but as far as I know, not for people.

A distinction based on familiarity. One set of pronouns to refer to close friends and family, one for acquaintances, one for strangers.

I like these weirdly practical pronouns! I can imagine them in a language of a highly rational alien species.

One of the conlangs I'm occasionally working on has pronouns based on the shortened form of names: the first syllable of the person's name plus a suffix. Plus one set of pronouns for if you don't know (or don't want to mention) a person's name.

I'd argue that shortened names aren't pronouns. Like, "Bob" isn't a pronoun after all. But that's a cool idea nonetheless.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I’d argue that shortened names aren’t pronouns. Like, “Bob” isn’t a pronoun after all. But that’s a cool idea nonetheless.

Counter-argument: the only two reasons why "Bob" isn't a pronoun are a) because English has other pronouns and b) because not every name has a form that's short enough to use in place of pronouns.

I would say it's fully plausible that a language develops proper pronouns (with case markings and everything else you would expect) based on a rule that works with any name. As an arbitrary example, a Robert, Robin, Ronald and Rocinante might all use roki for the nominative case, ros for the genitive case and ron for the accusative case. In the absence of other pronoun systems, that would be indistinguishable from what you imagine as pronouns. Add a few centuries of sound shifts and you get something really interesting.

[–] hakase@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago

I like these weirdly practical pronouns! I can imagine them in a language of a highly rational alien species.

This is how it works in Armenian - their personal pronouns are genderless and based on deixis (here, there, over there).