Do you understand that this is a criticism of site culture on the whole and not an individual categorization? Not every single interaction with every single user will be an example of this. It is all over the site, though. Dirtbag left shit is always like this; it was in the old r/cth days and it's not that much better here. The people who try to make things better get run off or leave burnt out from trying to cope with the dissonance. This is the identity problem. Lots of people just want their bro-bro locker room podcast Twitter dunks and others want an inclusive community with shared values, and those two worlds are constantly creating friction.