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[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 8 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

Ok so wtf is everyone talking about jarring parts

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

furries. linux supremacists. extremist left-wingers of various flavors and identity groups. fetishists of every variety and their weird SFW quasi pornography.

not sure how you aren't seeing any of that. i see it on a daily basis and to not see it i have to block dozens of communities. at one point on lemmy i had something like 60 communities blocked and 100s of users.

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I mean I see it but it’s the internet… do people really not expect them to be posting?

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

nothing wrong with them posting and doing their thing, but in fediverse that stuff hits general feeds and going to be incredibly alienating to a non-fetishist userbase. if the fediverse wants to grow it needs to keep controversial content away from the front page.

personally i know furries and I don't really care, but I'm a weirdo. Yet I still don't really want weird furry shit that I don't care about constantly showing up in my feed.

Average people are FREAKED OUT by furries, even pro-queer progressives: https://slate.com/advice/2026/02/parent-advice-son-hobby-community-furry.html

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Oh well yeah I mean furry content isn’t the same as furry porn. I immediately blocked the nsfw instances from my feed. Idk why that isn’t done by default

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 4 minutes ago

i think some instances do, some don't.

but some content is not porn, but very much like porn, like a lot of the furry meme stuff

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe all the ”what the fuck we just made another-moe" communities?

I swear I used to block three every week, until I figured out it was just a few users who didn't know how to use content warning tags, and then I just blocked those users.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 3 hours ago

100% same here. used to be every few weeks, now it's every other day. and it does help to block certain accounts, but it's still way more prolific and hard to filter out than it was 6 months ago

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

No idea. Maybe they're still federated with Lemmygrad and Hexbear for some odd reason?

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

My confusion is in no way lessened

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

They're particularly toxic tankie servers on Lemmy

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 3 hours ago

lemmy.ml is still rife with crazy tankies who go into other instances and harass the crap out of people.

[–] diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Ok I guess the only thing I have left to google is tankie lol