Slop.

Yeah people are way too comfortable getting all up in others' business. They aren't entitled to shit. I have an aunt nearing retirement who as far as I know isn't a lesbian and I've never heard of her having a male partner, I never thought to inquire but an uncle kind of made a snide remark about her being a rumored virgin. Or for example how family members think they can just get in people's business about if/when they plan to have kids and if they don't like they answer they'll expect a lengthy discourse. Oh, and god forbid a woman says she's not planning on having children. And that is before we're talking about coworkers or random strangers. Big ol' case a' nunya bizniz.