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Being mostly ace (probably a better phrasing for this, but definitely on the ace spectrum, but not the "definitely never want to have sex" kind) and reading some of this shit in threads like this is crazy.
If I'm boning someone it's pretty sure not to be casual. Not excluding the possibility, but really if I'm willing to bone someone then we're comfortable enough with each other not to need to worry about STI's. And medication kills my swimmers, so that's not a problem either.
I've never even seen a condom in person, and I'm older than a lot of you kids on here.
But hearing vaguely about the complaints with them is kinda funny to me. I'll never have to deal with it but I feel like that Spock gif of him saying "fascinating" when I see discussions like this.
Silly little allos. 😂