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Don't get me wrong, I'm all for privacy. But between setting up the birthdate when creating my children's local account on their computers, and having to send a copy of their ID to every platform under the sun, I'd easily chose the former.

I'd even agree to a simple protocol (HTTP X-Over-18 / X-Over-21 headers?) to that.

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[–] sorghum@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boiling_frog

And there are several states that do have the age thing for porn here in the US, the biggest of which is Texas.

[–] Womble@piefed.world -4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

So exactly the same argument, while referencing an experiment where the frogs did jump out of the boiling water unless they were lobotomised. Very convincing.

[–] sorghum@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

C'mon, don't be that dense, it's is a metaphor explaining that people are more likely to accept change if done gradually as opposed to all at once.

unless they were lobotomised.

Look around. Think of the average person, half of the people are below that person's intelligence and a good number of them vote.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

C'mon, don't be that dense

I don't think it's "dense" to point out that your metaphor depends on a common misunderstanding of an experiment. An experiment where the true result actually is an argument against your point.

[–] sorghum@sh.itjust.works 0 points 20 hours ago

The only misunderstanding is that it is only a metaphor and not actually biologically correct for frogs in the literal sense. It is absolutely applicable in human behavior, observable, and easily replicated. Is coffee or alcohol an actual acquired taste or is it people gradually adapting to change?

https://behaviorfacts.com/boiling-frog-theory/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mindfulness-for-wellbeing/202201/whats-the-best-way-to-change

[–] Womble@piefed.world -3 points 1 day ago

I know its a metaphor, but you can come up with any metaphor you want its still just speculation based on nothing. It's precicily the same argument that conservatives made about gay marriage: this is just the thin end of the wedge, it starts with allowing people to marry people of the same sex and then they'll move on to incest and bestiality.

Its a crap argument, if you want to oppose something show how this wither makes things worse or how it makes worse things easier to happen in the future. A good example would be the freedom restricting legislation brought in after 9/11. Despite assurances at the time that it would just be used against "terrorists" there was nothing in it to garuntee that, at you could make the argument that the legislation with no further changes could be used to do harm. Lo and behold it was.

Just pointing at something and saying "slipperly slope" or "boiling the frog" is not an argument against something unless you can show how it makes the next step easier, and I havent seen any actually thought through argument how this does make mandatory identification easier.

[–] lIlIlIlIlIlIl@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

No, I don’t believe you’re actually this stupid, sealion