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The other comments have the question on pregnancy covered, but no one has yet addressed the root of the problem, your last question. And it's a difficult one to answer on a forum since we don't know you except for what you post. So while it may sound both cliché and passing the problem onwards, I'd say get some therapy. Not because there's anything wrong with you, but you do seem to acknowledge that you're getting into situations you don't want to be in, and don't feel great about it. Just talk therapy could help, let someone guide you to figure out the real issues that are driving you to this. Perhaps there's specialty therapy for sex-driven behavior - a therapist would know if you need something more than general aid.
Use this as a wakeup call and a motive to change, and get help in figuring out what needs to change, and why you're in the spot you're in. You aren't alone in this, you just need to ask for help.