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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 89 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Children are not particularly discriminating consumers. They'll watch pretty much anything shiny that you put in front of them, because they don't know any better. A moderately well written film to an adult will literally be "the best thing" a teen has ever seen. When you catch a teen's interest early, they'll probably continue be interested in your brand for the next 10-20 years, at least. That money adds up. The attention they get from sharing everything with each other adds up.

Adults need to be impressed, and even then their interest will be moderated. It's a lot harder to make something a lot of adults are excited about.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 1 day ago (3 children)

It's also a "milestone" in everyones lives that most people have in common. Not as many people have gone to college and colleges can vary more. So I think they believe it to be relatable. Personally I wish movies were more focused on 25-30 age group, because I feel uncomfortable with how many movies and shows focus around romance/ people getting together or just outright hooking up, and as much as I want to engage in a movie and celebrate character/plot growth cheering on someone kissing a minor isn't for me.

Like I understand people say "it's a fantasy world" but Khaleesi was 13 in the first Games of Thrones book. Celebrating her growing a meaningful connection to a man who abducted and raped her is just... Yeah

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago

Like I understand people say "it's a fantasy world" but Khaleesi was 13 in the first Games of Thrones book. Celebrating her growing a meaningful connection to a man who abducted and raped her is just... Yeah

True, but if you think about it, a lot of GoT is just edge-bait. While it's awful they're normalizing that, it's also not that strange from considering everything else in the series

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

Indeed, one of the reasons Love Lies Bleeding is my favourite movie is because it's a romance between two people who are actually grown up (if not mature), they aren't star-crossed lovers, and they both already know what they like in bed

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

that's how life was in those cultures. it still is in afganistan and other undeveloped peoples where brides are married off at 12.

the concept of adulthood being 18 or later is modern teenagerhood only really existed as a concept post ww2. post secondary education wasn't mandated across the entire usa until 1950, and only started getting adopted in 1920.

in the 20th century in europe and the USA lots of people were being married off before 18, especially in rural communities/countries that had not made secondary education mandatory.

[–] searabbit@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

that’s how life was in those cultures

What are "those cultures"? Because the person you replied to only mentioned GoT and that's not a real culture.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

nomadic horse peoples. They existed, and they still do in Mongolia, Afganistan, and other remote inland areas with steppe geographies.

The rural tribes in Afganistan are full of trading in children as sex objects to secure political deals and favors.

[–] wavebeam@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Brother, no. Please stop apologizing for pedophilia. It was wrong then and it’s wrong now to sexualize minors, even if it was socially acceptable. Also the “then” were referring to is most generously applied to like 800AD or something, but it didn’t exist. And this whole comment you’re replying to is about disliking fictional shows about romance. It’s okay to find fictional romance with minors a line you won’t cross, because it’s entertainment and doesn’t matter, only watch what you like. It doesn’t make you better for liking things that are “more realistic” because it glamorizes pedophilia of an analogous real culture.

[–] JayGray91@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It doesn't read as pedophilia apologia to me, and more like a statement that it is unfortunately still done in some cultures on Earth

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 6 points 21 hours ago

dumb people think if you acknowledge that something exists, you support it.

[–] MBech@feddit.dk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

How dare people write fiction with icky things in it.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -2 points 1 day ago

it's ok. the dothraki would have not raped you, just cut off your head because you're weak and can't ride a horse.