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Do other countries in the world have the same experience?

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[–] k0e3@lemmy.ca 6 points 6 hours ago

I dunno if you watch anime but most mainstream ones start off with a high school kid discovering they've got a special gift.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I am not at all nostalgic for high school, it was a nightmare. Don't know anyone in real life who thinks it was a good part of their life.

It's a common setting for stories from all over, though. Coming - of - age stories are eternally popular. And here, kids are in high school as they transition from child to adult, so that's where many of those stories are set.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Because the midpoint of a human lifetime, in terms of subjective experience of the passage of time, is at approximately age 22.

[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 23 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Because most people peaked in HS.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Unlike me, I peaked in middle school 😎

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

I peaked at birth, every choice from that point has been dubious.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 31 points 13 hours ago

Because being an adult in the U.S. sucks. Many people work right out of high school until they retire/die without ever going on a real vacation.

So people fantasize about the time when they weren't wage slaves.

[–] fruitycoder@sh.itjust.works 19 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Largely universal experience. Lots of activities and clubs vs adult hood (sports, rallies, math club, robotics club, etc). High feeling of potential (every is wonder what they will become instead of the are).

[–] Frostbeard@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

Basically the premise for Offsprings "The kids' aren't alright" https://youtu.be/7iNbnineUCI?is=W0k-Q5A3aOE9YStq

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Because most of its citizens peaked in it.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I genuinely have no idea, my HS was an absolute nightmare and I hold no nostalgia for it whatsoever.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

"These are the best years of your life" is the WRONG thing to tell a teenager thinking about ending it.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 10 hours ago

Genuinely this, I was extremely suicidal during my HS years and I havent fully recovered yet.

[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

In Canada we don't care about it like that.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Canadian high school reunions really aren't a thing.

[–] k0e3@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 hours ago

I'm just gonna assume my school never had one and not that I wasn't invited.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 37 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

I don’t think I see anyone else saying it: Because High School was the last school for the vast majority of people. It was the transition into adult life and responsibilities.

In American history a lot of people didn’t even make it to High School. You got enough of an education to work whatever job, or were forced to quit schooling and start working because of family financial needs.

College wasn’t needed for a good paying job that would be enough to own a home, car, have a family, etc.

So High School was the end of the line for being a kid in school and whatever freedoms came with that. Especially for the Boomer generation the economy at the time really allowed a lot more freedoms for High School kids than had ever been available before.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago

This is one of the signs of stagnation. Sure, high school was enough education half a century ago but the world continues to get more and more complicated. Why haven’t basic education requirements ever risen to match?

Free public school needs to be through an additional two years of what is currently called college/vocational/trade school

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 0 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

I don’t think I see anyone else saying it: Because High School was the last school for the vast majority of people.

87% of adults graduated high school. 60-70% of high school graduates enroll in a college or university program. So that means that 52% or more of people in the US go to college. Obviously that's massively location-dependent, but it's just not true that the "vast" majority of people don't go to college. It's about half.

Maybe you're talking about historically? But it's been a long time since any percentage you could call a "vast" majority left school after secondary. Certainly the majority or a very large minority of Americans alive today had some college or trade school education.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

“Was”. Not “is”. “In American History…”

My use of past tense was deliberate.

[–] ilinamorato@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago

The initial question from OP is present tense, though. "Does."

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 11 points 21 hours ago (4 children)

Why are you asking about US when Japan got all that highschool themed stuff?

[–] zikzak025@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

Yeah I was gonna say, I don't know if any country produces more high school themed media than Japan.

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 44 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Baby Boomers are the reason why high school became so culturally relevant.

You had a large cohort of students coming of age together at a time when the country was wealthy enough where you had a class of people who had gone through puberty but wasn't being given the full roles and responsibilities of being adults. This new separate age group between kids and adults was relatively novel.

You also started seeing a major change in cultural forces like music and cinema which catered to this set of consumers. This catering became very important as companies realized this was when adults formed a lot of their tastes and preferences. Cultural output started focusing on this age group as tastemakers.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Also, going forward, music tastes get stuck in high school years.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 5 points 12 hours ago

One of my dementia care protips to new psych workers is that (since music is actually clinically proven to be calming), you can look at the age on their wristband and try whatever was popular when they were 15-25.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 89 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Children are not particularly discriminating consumers. They'll watch pretty much anything shiny that you put in front of them, because they don't know any better. A moderately well written film to an adult will literally be "the best thing" a teen has ever seen. When you catch a teen's interest early, they'll probably continue be interested in your brand for the next 10-20 years, at least. That money adds up. The attention they get from sharing everything with each other adds up.

Adults need to be impressed, and even then their interest will be moderated. It's a lot harder to make something a lot of adults are excited about.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 1 day ago (11 children)

It's also a "milestone" in everyones lives that most people have in common. Not as many people have gone to college and colleges can vary more. So I think they believe it to be relatable. Personally I wish movies were more focused on 25-30 age group, because I feel uncomfortable with how many movies and shows focus around romance/ people getting together or just outright hooking up, and as much as I want to engage in a movie and celebrate character/plot growth cheering on someone kissing a minor isn't for me.

Like I understand people say "it's a fantasy world" but Khaleesi was 13 in the first Games of Thrones book. Celebrating her growing a meaningful connection to a man who abducted and raped her is just... Yeah

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago

Like I understand people say "it's a fantasy world" but Khaleesi was 13 in the first Games of Thrones book. Celebrating her growing a meaningful connection to a man who abducted and raped her is just... Yeah

True, but if you think about it, a lot of GoT is just edge-bait. While it's awful they're normalizing that, it's also not that strange from considering everything else in the series

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[–] fork@feddit.online 71 points 1 day ago (4 children)

That's not something specific to the US. If you chose a manga or anime at random, it'd most likely revolve around a highschooler.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yup, one of the reasons Black Lagoon is now one of my favourite animés is that it neither involves school nor a magical alternative universe. It does revolve around a salaryman though ... can't win them all I guess :-/

[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

May I interest you in Samurai Pizza Cats?

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 9 hours ago

Yes. Yes you can.

Thank you for the tip :-)

[–] captcha_incorrect@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago

I don't mind the magic, I like fantasy. The highschool theme got boring, fast.

[–] maplesaga@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Not necessarily, sometimes its a Japanese salaryman being reincarnated into a video game.

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[–] webkitten@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago

Because adulthood is shit.

  • Countless coming of age experiences happen around that time

  • A massive peer group, with all the dynamics that entails. For most, it's the last time they will regularly interact with that many peers ever.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

only about half the population goes to college, and 20 years ago it was only about a 1/3 and so on.

high school is a universal experience, college is not. so there is a broader media audience for high school, and yes for many people high school was there youth and they became working adults once they left it.

the prolong adolescence of college and post-graduate study is mostly for the top 25-10% of the population who are wealthy and not relatable to the vast majority of the population. when i was a college kid and a graduate student, my uneducated parents thought college was just partying all the time because of movies about college only showed frat parties and antics. They had no clue I was working 80 hour weeks and getting drunk maybe once a month or less.

[–] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 23 hours ago

from my experience, people from romania do

[–] kurmudgeon@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Because life in the U.S. is all shit after high school.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 8 points 20 hours ago

It was shit in high school too. College was alright.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 7 points 22 hours ago

My life improved markedly after I left high school. For a while, anyway, I loved university.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago

Tbf it was pretty shit in high school also.

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