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[-] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 95 points 10 months ago

When I hear a woman say "I'm not a feminist" my first thought is "WHY THE HELL NOT??"

[-] this_is_router@feddit.de 47 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

because the word feminism has different meanings for different people. for some it means equality and a way to get there. for others it means men are bad and women should get priority treatment. communication is hard when there is no objective meaning for any of the words we are using.

[-] matjoeman@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago

But that second meaning is a bogeyman. No one says "I am a feminist" and means that.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago

No one? There are 8 billion people screaming out whatever random ideas occurs to them for hours a day across the planet. You can't make that statement about anything anymore.

Also there is also just plain misinformation campaigns. People creating strawman arguments pretending to be on the other side.

[-] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 10 points 10 months ago

They absolutely do. I've met a few of them.

[-] stillwater@lemm.ee -2 points 10 months ago

Then they're not really feminists. Just like the people who say they're Christian but then say helping the poor is socialist garbage.

[-] JesusLikesYourButt@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

I get where you're coming from, but I vehemently disagree. That's just the no true Scotsman fallacy.

[-] stillwater@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The No True Scotsman fallacy isn't about people who claim to be something arbitrarily. Its about gatekeeping to preserve some kind of integrity or quality for the sake of an argument.

If I say "I'm a communist" but then espouse only fascist beliefs and display an ignorance of primary tenets of communism, am I really a communist just because I say I am?

[-] JesusLikesYourButt@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Again, I get where you're coming from.

The reality of the situation is that a movement is full of factions. People aren't a monolith and they think differently and feel differently. Jk Rowling considers herself a feminist, and she is an iteration of what a feminist can look like sadly.

Think of religious sects, they all fall under the same umbrella of Christianity or Judaism or what have you, but have radically different beliefs and feelings.

They get involved in protests and push their agendas just like any other group of people.

Or tankies! They fucking suuuuuuck and they are communist! I like communism by the way, but tankies can eat and then shit out some Lego blocks.

[-] fkn@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Take a look at the difference between 2nd, 3rd and 4th wave feminism... The consider post feminism arguments.

What most people consider feminism is typically called 2nd wave feminism.

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

But people do say “I’m NOT a feminist”, meaning not that

[-] billiam0202@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

But the right has been convinced they do. Just like how they think CRT means "teaching white kindergartners that they should feel bad for being white and are inferior to Black kindergartners."

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