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[–] teegus@sh.itjust.works 106 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I appreciate that every post doesn' have 3000 comments. I can actually contribute to a discussion and get heard.

[–] alvvayson@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Also, on Reddit when you post a comment that gets even a little bit popular and visible, you always get some asshole who misrepresents your point and wants to pick a virtual fight.

I never know when to engage or ignore.

In any case, it's never satisfying. Ignore and you feel bad. Engage and you feel bad.

Lemmy is nicer. Way less assholes.

[–] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 41 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Lemmy is nicer. Way less assholes.

It's way fewer assholes, idiot

humourIf you can't tell, this is a joke

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Idk, I always thought that about 1 asshole per human was a good ratio to have, it's a proven design

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Definitely more than one animal per human, animals are cool!

[–] affiliate@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

yeah there’s plenty to go around :)

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] affiliate@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

be sure to get one while supplies last

[–] SuckMyWang@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Always clarify or add an /s. It’s not worth it. Good job

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're wrong. People always understand sarcasm.

[–] SuckMyWang@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Lol. You’re right!

[–] zoe@jlai.lu -3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

personally i dont take grammar seriously. u somehow need to chill

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Not even the fight and the downvote is enough for them. Then it turns into mod complaints and permabans.

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And not so long ago, you did get heard, but there was also a 50/50 chance of being called a capitalist pig and a baby killer regardless of what you contributed.

It seems that everyone has found their own corners on Lemmy now, so that is nice.

[–] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's because it's not as homogeous a platform since the flood from Reddit. The problem with any small platform isn't strictly because they're small, mind you, but a side effect of getting bigger is usually more people and that means more a diverse range of opinions. So the assholes are more drowned out.

It's not a hard and fast rule but that's usually what I've noticed.

[–] Prometheus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

contribute to a discussion and get hard

This is how I read at first, and was like, same bro, same.

[–] teegus@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did you head over to lemmynsfw?

[–] Prometheus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Of course I did!

[–] zoe@jlai.lu 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

thats because we dont have those threads were anyone would elaborate on the upper comment with a stupid reply, and that reply gets replied to with another slightly different but also stupid reply..here we get actual comments and replies..wanna learn alphabet ? go to kindegarten .. it helps to have a mature and respectful userbase, which also wouldn't require much effort to moderate. sometimes it costs nothing to be nice .. in the long run we needed access to a social platform afterall, might as well stand by our values and preserve it