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submitted 11 months ago by Rom@hexbear.net to c/the_dunk_tank@hexbear.net

https://programming.dev/comment/6314140

Also accuses us of getting "offended at anyone, for any reason." Literally indistinguishable from a chud.

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[-] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 76 points 11 months ago
[-] kristina@hexbear.net 59 points 11 months ago

i sometimes have nightmares like this

[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 50 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I would continue your joke and say come join us, but you really do not want to.

The amount of bullshit involved in cisnormative straight relationships is way too damn high. I don't understand how anyone can do this. I can't as a cisgender bisexual guy.

[-] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 53 points 11 months ago

A cis, on my Hexbear?! Wow, this site is sure starting to feel progressive and inclusive! Welcome Conrad!

[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 45 points 11 months ago

Not even cishet though, still very much bi. Hexbear lacking in diversity because we have no straights smh

[-] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 39 points 11 months ago

Hi it's me, I'll be the hexbear token

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 22 points 11 months ago
[-] MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net 20 points 11 months ago
[-] JoeByeThen@hexbear.net 14 points 11 months ago
[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 25 points 11 months ago

I'm transhet, does that count?

[-] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 34 points 11 months ago

ive already come from the other side and the grass is way greener over here hey

[-] Orannis62@hexbear.net 10 points 11 months ago

So before I came out, I was in a straight-appearing relationship, with dynamics that were unconsciously just queer enough that we often lightly made fun of our more traditional straight couple friends, like literally "are the straights ok?" type stuff (we still thought we were straight though, somehow).

EVEN SO it was so much more stifling than any of my relationships after I came out. The expectations are constant and unrelenting until you get to a place where there's no possible way anyone can read you as cishet, and even then cishets are so oblivious you have to outright tell them

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