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[-] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 13 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Pretty good advice, except the bit about eschewing video games. Bird watching is more mentally stimulating than piloting a T28 in extreme battle conditions? You're out of your fucking element, Donny.

[-] Anti_Face_Weapon@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Idk, video games are absolutely mentally stimulating, but it's less fulfilling than a variety of activities.

[-] Chocrates@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Cultivating multiple disparate hobbies is good though imo. Let's you experience new problems and new people and new things. Video games are great though, in moderation like all things.
I say this after binging palworld for the last couple weeks 😃

[-] bluewing@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago

I did not say you shouldn't play video games at all. But you miss the total picture of an activity like bird watching. Bird watching involves actually getting up, getting dressed, getting you gear and camera ready, and getting out into the "real world" to do. Often with groups of other like minded people enjoying the hobby. And not sitting on your ass in a room alone for hours on end.

It's about being involved with the outside world and the physical effort interacting with other real in-person humans that matters. As a medic I was paged out at times to people who were lonely and just wanted someone - anyone - to actually be with and talk to. Sometimes they would even have a suitcase packed and ready for the trip to a hospital. Playing a video game online won't give you the same social interaction as someone actually being there with you.

And now being old myself, I understand even more just how important it is to have regular physical social interaction for good mental health. And just like sitting alone on a bench in a shopping mall, a video game lobby or team match isn't quite the same thing.

[-] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

As someone who birdwatches and plays video games, I do not agree with most of what you've said here. You've oversimplified video gaming in the most small minded way (i.e. just sitting on your ass in a room), while glorifying birdwatching which I could easily simplify as just sitting on your ass on a bench.

That said, I appreciate you taking the time to reply. You needn't do so again for my benefit.

[-] DingoBilly@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Yeah the rest made sense but that bit. Games can be extremely challenging much more so than any other mental activity you'll end up doing.

[-] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 months ago

Especially if you play a lot of different kinds. Just learning new games and figuring them out is plenty mentally challenging.

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