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[-] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I try to be the guy giving the compliments. Like, "Hey I like the jacket," or, "Hey I like the hat," stuff like that. I'll say it strangers and they always seem surprised and put on a seemingly genuine smile.

Us guys need to look out for each other, ya know? Some guys will never hear a compliment, and just hearing one can make someone's day.

[-] createika@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Hey, nice attitude! I can relate to that, and it's why I made this comic doodle. There's nothing like creating a good ripple in someone's life (and I don't think it's insincere to share what naturally crossed my mind anyway).

Keep doing what you're doing!

[-] general_kitten@sopuli.xyz 5 points 8 months ago

for some a compliment can be a thing they remember for years

[-] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

Good on you, I'm trying to be that person more and more because I know it makes my week whenever I get a compliment.

[-] wieson@feddit.de 1 points 8 months ago

Make sure you don't run into people of the culture, who - once you express that you like something - they have to gift it to you.

^^'

[-] Cornucopiaofplenty@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

Or purposefully run into those people

[-] Wilshire@lemmy.world 12 points 8 months ago
[-] Advocado@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago
[-] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago
[-] Advocado@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago
[-] OutlierBlue@lemmy.ca 4 points 8 months ago

So... should I put my pants back on?

[-] pete_the_cat@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

No... Keep them off

( ͡◉◞ ͜ʖ◟ ͡◉)

[-] Godric@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago

My New Year's Resolution was: Every day I'm out walking the street is to give at least one compliment to a stranger.

Whether it be the man walking with his beloved with a Larry David tier smile, or the person rocking a cowboy hat well in my local frozen sunless hell, I let them know how wonderful they are.

[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago

I was wearing a nice suit while walking to my car on the way to a job interview, and this rolled his windows down and pulled over to say I looked amazing.

It felt nice. And I got the job offer!

[-] Toldry@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago
[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

It was actually a few years back and kinda screwed me over for a while. I quit my old job, then Covid lockdown happened the week before the new job started and the offer was withdrawn.

And since I quit the old job and never started the new one I didn't qualify for unemployment.

But it all worked out. I have an awesome career now that I wouldn't have had otherwise. I make decent money and love what I do.

[-] Toldry@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Congrats again!

[-] xantoxis@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

The last time I was in a Spirit Halloween store, the cashier told me they liked my hoodie.

I want to emphasize that I still occasionally think about this thing that happened in October.

[-] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 2 points 8 months ago

It's amazing how well a small, well meaning compliment can make your day, your week...

I was playing hockey last month and one player on the other team complimented something I did on the ice. Simple thing. "Nice puck protection!" after I made a play. Fuck, I'm so used to being chirped out there that it caught me completely off guard. I told my gf that night "The karma version of my brain is like: I should compliment players on the other team more. They probably feel great when that happens too 😀"

[-] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 2 points 8 months ago

Hell, I remember when one of my classmates in gym class complimented my basketball shot, and that was back in the '90s. (If you're out there, Leon, thanks.)

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[-] Huschke@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Is this loss?

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 6 points 8 months ago
[-] wolfshadowheart@slrpnk.net 4 points 8 months ago

Now we need a "hey nice shirt", "sod off" and vice versa

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Title: "Emotional Starvation and the Modern Man."

The one thing most modern men have in common. Together forever alone.

[-] 4am@lemm.ee 3 points 8 months ago

Anytime this happens to me I spiral about how I might have just missed the sarcasm

[-] meliaesc@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

What would be the harm in just taking it as a compliment anyway?

[-] Kase@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Probably none, and that's exactly why I'm not going to do it!

[-] Kase@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

Pro tip: if someone compliments your shirt, offer it to them. Bonus points if you start taking it off before they can say no.

To take it a step further: if you compliment someone's shirt, pause just long enough for them to form a response, then ask, "Can I have it?" The key is to deliver it with a flat tone and a straight face, as though it's a totally normal question to ask.

[-] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

This sounds like a "I think you should leave" bit

[-] Godric@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago
[-] Kase@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

Why not?

Nice hair btw ... ✂️💇‍♀️? 🤏??

[-] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago
[-] Welt@lazysoci.al 2 points 8 months ago

Bloody Aussie goths

[-] M137@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

I get compliments from random people several times a week, and while it does feel kinda good it also makes me anxious and more aware of how I look. I feel a lot better when I give compliments, I generally don't get the anxiety and feel better about it afterwards.

I'm a dude, FYI.

[-] pete_the_cat@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Anxiety is a bitch.

[-] GBU_28@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Cartoon would be better if you saw a sliver of red coming out of the bedsheets.

Edit not sure why downvote. I think it'd be funnier if he wore the shirt to bed.

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