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[–] JimSamtanko@lemm.ee 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aaaaaand…. Why does this matter?

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's zero percent interesting to you? And then you decided to click on it and tell us that?

It's interesting to me. I am fond of Simmons and the work he did just by being so visible. While paradoxically being so private. If you find nothing interesting about that, geeze man, unclench.

[–] JimSamtanko@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I’m genuinely curious- why is his sexuality important to you?

And I’m as “unclenched” as one can get. Maybe don’t read into things. I guarantee- It’ll serve you far better than your assumptions have.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Your entire tone, rhetorical posture -- "body language" if you will -- is extremely clenched.

His sexuality is important to me because he is an icon and an activist for people who are not hetero-normative in a time that was (and still is) aggressively hetero-normative. I am exploring my own sexuality and learning things about myself, and that is in part thanks to the space Simmons created with his kindness and bravery that I even have the opportunity to do that.

Sexuality isn't the two or three labels people like to use. It's a universe of individual sexualities. It would have been fascinating to be able to learn more about Simmon's unique sexuality. It would be fascinating to learn about anyone's (to a person with curiosity about sexuality), but especially his.

My genuine question to you. How the hell can you not see any of that. How can you be so triggered as to deny that and the millions of other reasons people might care could even exist. And why did you think we needed to know. You might not realize it but it come across as homophobic dog whistling.

[–] Perfide@reddthat.com 39 points 1 year ago

Dude left the public life altogether a decade ago. Man clearly values his privacy, as he should.

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Who cares about Richard Simmons sexuality. We all should talk about how Richard hasn't been seen since 2014.

[–] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

He's 75. Let him spend his final decades in peace.

[–] schwim@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago

In fairness, he didn't need to.

[–] yemmly@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

His only lover is fitness.

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Idk he really seemed to like all the guys on Whose Line Is It Anyways?

[–] UFODivebomb@programming.dev 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope he's doing ok. That's all.

[–] don@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

He passed away July 13 of this year.

[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Dude is an amazing guy and really helped people....hope he's well.

[–] erp@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I too, have never actually publicly discussed my sexuality

[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 6 points 1 year ago

The perennial bachelor. He'll find a nice girl and settle down eventually.

[–] Chozo@fedia.io 6 points 1 year ago

I wish he'd hurry up and say something already, I've been dying to know!

/s, obviously

[–] darkpanda@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t know about all that, but I did catch his appearance on the American version of Whose Line Is It Anyway?…

https://youtu.be/b-r4Flc_d2M?si=l3MB5RJu48lWBbRj

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, after that he doesn't have to spell it out, does he?

[–] Twinkletoes@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago
[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Neither have I.

[–] NESSI3 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)