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mocking and quoting bigots I've seen so far

:liberalism: turns to pit "you know it's hexbear when the tankie pronoun parade shows up to force pictures of pigshit in front of you!"* real quick

[*this is paraphrased, I can't remember the exact original quote]

Or "so suddenly I'm Hitler because i think people calling themselves Fae gender is dumb"

Or "why should i need to learn a new set of different pronouns for every person I meet?" (this followed two comments after "I'm literally not a transphobe, I work with plenty of trans colleagues who feel safe around me" (average lib being scratched in real time by having to acknowledge neopronouns))

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All of these shitheads claimed to be allies when they started interacting but our brilliant pronoun tags immediately made them out themselves as the bigots they are who only pretend to be allies because it looks bad to be openly and proudly transphobic

TL;DR: pitmaduro-katana-1hexbear-non-binary

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[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 92 points 1 year ago

I literally just got more people in my notifs fucking malding over neopronouns in fucking 196 agony-shivering

[-] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 74 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Hey i'm not even from Hexbear and I've decided to adopt them 😘

Also about new pronouns, it might be pretty easy to remember them in English but goddamn Polish would be something else. And I've seen queer people make lists of all their pronouns and declinations, which is fucking based, but by god I would need a reference from every person I type to who uses neopronouns.

In writing it only is a slight incovienience but in talking it would destroy the flow of conversation unless I'm already familiar with said person. So good on you anglos only having 2 pronouns that need to be set.

EDIT: For those interested in our little shitshow, here have a wikipedia link lel:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polish_grammar#Pronouns

EDIT 2: You can also speak in Polish using a genderless passive way (don't know how to tranlate it properly) by refraining from using pronouns at all. Or I use other sentence steuctures as to avoid using pronouns. It sounds funny at best and unnatural at worst. I use it when talking to trans people in public, as to maintain their safety and give them proper respect by refusing to use wrong pronouns.

"Chciałbyś/Chciałabyś (already genered words have been used) napić się herbaty?"

Would you like to drink some tea?

"Może napilibyśmy się herbaty?"

How about we drink some tea? (We just specifiy that we are talking about us togerher)

"Przydałoby się wypić trochę herbaty."

I/We should drink some tea. (EDIT 3: After a bit of thinking I came to a realization that this sentence can refer to ourselves alone or us with the other person, but it depends on the context to know whether plural or singular is emphasized.)

"Wypiłoby się herbaty?"

Would we/you drink tea? (In this sentence we completely omit not only the gender. But also the singluar and plural. But we also give context that we don't talk about ourselves alone by making this a question. The only uncertain thing is wether we talk about us together or them alone)

EDIT 4: The better translation of the above sentence would be "Should/Would tea be drank?" because now I remembered that the formal way to call this type of talking is passive personless. (Bierny bezosobowy)

Polish is funky.

[-] Flyberius@hexbear.net 53 points 1 year ago

Superior mandarin Ta pronoun for everything.

[-] LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net 49 points 1 year ago

他、她、ta xigma-male

We love an nb inclusive language flag-non-binary-pride

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[-] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 45 points 1 year ago
[-] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 51 points 1 year ago

Róża my beloved... You know what. Fuck it! I'll show off!

These prints are from 2008, you will not find any Marx or Engles or anyone else have prints after 1989. And yet these exist. I snatched them up instantly.

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[-] artificialset@hexbear.net 71 points 1 year ago

concerned about new pronouns? think it's unfair to have to learn new pronouns??

bestie we've dealt with this near-site breaking struggle sessions before and won, so gl with that

[-] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 47 points 1 year ago

NGL I was mildly against the pronoun thing when it started, but I was humble enough not to get involved in the struggle sessions. So literally thanks to Hexbear posters for putting me on the right side of history.

[-] TillieNeuen@hexbear.net 46 points 1 year ago

I had a moment of "I'm not sure I want to be obviously female on the internet," then I remembered I chose a feminine username and realized I was being real dumb. Also it's Hexbear, so misogyny just isn't a problem anyway.

[-] fox@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago

My stance on the pronouns was always:

  1. I have nothing to gain if these aren't added, and lose nothing if they are
  2. Queer comrades gain wider acceptance if they are, and a more inclusive environment is a better environment

Seemed like a pretty easy choice

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[-] Frank@hexbear.net 71 points 1 year ago

Makes me think of those polls where people think that like 30% of America is trans. Don't like 1% or so of trans people use neopronouns?

[-] LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net 58 points 1 year ago

From my sample size all of my friends and most of the people I meet are trans because of social things I attend, and I've only met one person in real life who uses neopronouns. Really cool ze/zir.

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[-] aFairlyLargeCat@hexbear.net 68 points 1 year ago

Uhhh, actually, if you have pronoun tags that means you’re a bot, it’s just logical.

smuglord

[-] Zrc@hexbear.net 69 points 1 year ago

trans people don't want to be around me, so many of them being in one place is very suspicious

smuglord

[-] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 54 points 1 year ago

Today i saw a guy from midwest.social claim that

CW: transphobia, world's most clueless cissiewe must be Russian bots because we have so many different pronouns. I'd link to the comment, but it has obviously been removed by the mods for the transphobia. I still can't get over how much of a cisdude shitfest your surroundings must be that it throws you off when the people replying to you have exotic pronouns like "he/him" and "she/her" - these were literally two of his examples, the others being "they /them" and "none / use name" and a grand total of one actual neopronoun. Made that dipshit think that our botnet "sets pronouns to shuffle", as if that would result in something as tame as the selction of pronouns he's given.

[-] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 41 points 1 year ago

screenshot (cw: transphobia)

“Any tankie space would obviously be like 98% he/him neckbeards only.”

[-] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 47 points 1 year ago

such a complete dingus, you can tell he's never consciously talked to a trans person in their entire life, has no idea what trans spaces look like, has no bloody clue how radicalizing it is to grow up as trans in our society and how absurdly large the number of trans anarchists and communists is or how much we concentrate in the few spaces that actually care for our safety. i actually kinda pitty them for that.

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[-] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 51 points 1 year ago

"pronoun parade" lmao yeah fuck-o we do in fact have parades..

[-] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 47 points 1 year ago

gayroller-2000 trans-specter meow-knife-trans blahaj trans-ferret crazy-frog-trans stfu-terf

^the parade

[-] betelgeuse@hexbear.net 45 points 1 year ago

It was one of our first struggle sessions. It didn't kill unfederated Hexbear, did they think it would kill us?

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[-] some_guy 45 points 1 year ago

I've been training myself through deliberate use to use they/them whenever there's any ambiguity. It's almost completely effortless now. Rarely do I have to think about it consciously.

[-] Venus@hexbear.net 44 points 1 year ago

I now default to she/her. Don't like being misgendered, gamers? Set your pronouns hentai-free

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[-] nickwitha_k 42 points 1 year ago

I just love your pronoun support. It's great to see both the serious ones and the joke ones. Both for the solidarity with our brothers/sisters/niblings and as a quick visual cue that a comment thread is gonna get interesting in a way that isn't supporting bigotry :D

[-] booty@hexbear.net 77 points 1 year ago

There are no joke pronoun options on Hexbear. We took a hard stance early that the pronoun tags are serious, without any of our normal silliness.

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[-] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 42 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Manually adding pronouns by customising your display name in settings is something everyone can do on any instance. The difference being it’s mandatory here. Feel free to add your own and join in.

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[-] ItsPequod@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago

Love the pronouns.

Wish they weren't a hyperlink. Tired as hell of accidentally tapping them instead of the upbear, can the upbear be moved to the right of the time poster maybe?

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