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[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 190 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

I'm a man and I'd never date a Republican either.

A person's politics are a reflection of their values: if they're willing to identify themselves as someone who validates all that fascist shit, then I want nothing to do with them.

It's crazy to me that this take is even remotely controversial.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 49 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I was raised with Republican beliefs, but got off that train during the 2nd GWB admin. The times were there were any middle ground to find between mixed political couples is long gone. When the only topics anyone spends time debating are morality, religion, and discrimination, what middle ground can exist? Facts don't weigh into debates for Republicans anymore. They have chosen feelings in the face of data. They choose to knowingly follow ignorance. It becomes a zero-sum game, where they either wear you down into going along with them, or they get ignored and cut off.

Being open to others' opinions, experiences, and education helped me to see a different world view, but it didn't seem so frowned upon back then. But now the desire to get rid of the Board of Education, promote a purposefully biased curriculum, and treated the educated as an enemy, I don't know how people are supposed to get shown a different truth than what they have been indoctrinated into.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

They debate morality? I thought they'd abandoned morals afte integrity stopped being a thing.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago

They do have principles, however oddly flexible they may be.

My family and the gf's are probably 90% conservative. They know I'm not, and to an extent they treat me differently. But I don't think they'd wish anything bad on me as they might a stranger.

You see this in the face eating leopard articles where they're always like "I never wanted them deported, they're one of the good ones.". Once they get to know someone, they see they're really not so different at the core and that they're good honest people like they see themselves.

I really think it's just some bad wiring in the empathy part of the brain. Most of these people still have a chance to learn better views on the issues. Some may truly be hateful misanthropes, but I feel that is a very small minority.

It's easy to hate conservatives right now, and I won't say anyone is wrong to be angry. The only non-violent way we preserve rights though is by getting people to understand strangers and develop that empathy.

Most of us probably know a number of hard to love people right now, but it's taken time to make them ignorant and hateful, so we can give up on them or we can put time into undoing what has been done to them. I can't tell anyone what is right for them, but it's something we all need to bear in mind.

[–] maniclucky@lemmy.world 35 points 8 months ago

It's only controversial for those who are being called out on being terrible people on a moral level.

[–] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 15 points 8 months ago

Republican men tend to expect (demand) all women be open and willing to date them, also to become ultra submissive to them and warp their entire lives around whatever the dude desires. It's fucked up but it's a real problem if you're a woman. (Non-Republican men and even women can also have similar expectations, but there's a reason "Would you date a Republican man?" is a meme.)

[–] rational_lib@lemmy.world 92 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I used to be open to dating Republican women, Then I actually dated one. Now I'm no longer open to dating Republican women.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

The majority of white women voted for Trump, tho

[–] isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de 22 points 8 months ago (1 children)

the majority of those who voted, not to mention most of them are well in their 50s and probably already married

[–] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

And they are racist shitbags

[–] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Your point? The garbage is welcome to other garbage. As a white woman, I would never date, fuck, or marry a Republican.

[–] TurtleOnASkateboard@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 months ago

I had sex with someone last night who very likely voted for Kamala Harris

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Scared of their hubby probably

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Or drinking from the same well of propaganda.

The idea that men can be duped by a wall of Murdoch press but women can't seems dubious.

[–] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 months ago

Presumably the one asking is the Republican... Ditch her.

[–] troglodytis@lemmy.world 10 points 8 months ago

Sorry about the fucking idiots, and thanks for not fucking the idiots.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)
[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 6 points 8 months ago

If he'd weep at all, it wouldn't be because a woman says she wouldn't be interested in him because of his politics – it'd be because of what's become of his politics.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 5 points 8 months ago

i only date propublicans.

[–] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 8 months ago

Would I save a drowning republican, if I had the ability to snap my fingers and plop them on dry land?

Gonna be the long answer.