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submitted 5 days ago by Pyrin@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I don't miss dial-up internet, I just don't. I don't even like the sound because it's just digital screeches and it's a sound that makes me cringe a little upon hearing it. Because I remember the times when I'd be listening to music with headphones with volume high and then that fucking digital screech just blares into my ears.

I don't miss waiting 30 minutes to load a page. I don't miss a bit of it.

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[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 38 points 5 days ago

Smoking.

Do you know why all the wall paint and curtains of the 70s and 80s never included pristine white? Yes, that’s why. I’m convinced the choices of golds, oranges, and browns were just giving in to the inescapable film of nicotine tinge on everything, everywhere.

To this day, when I see “cream”, “ecru”, “chiffon” or any other creative name for not-quite-white, I think of nicotine stains.

Restaurant smoking was the worst.

I’ve never, and this is likely why. Growing up in that acrid awfulness was a great deterrent.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 days ago

When I was doing some interior work and searching paints, Ralph Loren paints had a Nicotene stain to apply over colours or wallpaper to give it that smoke era feel. LOL

[-] zephorah@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago

It’s a film of goo. If you’re in a kitchen of a smokers house and a tea kettle or boiling pot goes for a bit, rusty drips will form on the ceiling and down the walls. There’s a filmy goo to it if you get it on your hands. It’s a piece of what needs to be cleaned then painted over, sometimes multiple times, to lock it away.

I guess if there’s no context for it, then it’s a mere sepia tone or some such.

I could not find a listing for this paint of yours.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah, should have been more descriptive. I have purchased smokers homes. Getting walls and ceiling clean was a nightmare. The Ralph Lauren paints was part of their antiquing collection?? I believe. It had various types like heavy smoke, light smoke and nicotene. They were sort of a translucent after finish you applied. They would not give the stickiness of nicotene tar, but give the yellowed over layer. You could paint on thick, but it looked like many used the spray on and dab off, to get either smoke or nicotene accumulation at corners and have general wall the chosen colour. It found it hilarious that people would be spending top dollar on Ralph Lauren with purpose of making your wallpaper or painted wall look dirty. But maybe it got used to remodel heritage homes or movie sets to get the era right.

[-] darkfiremp3@beehaw.org 71 points 5 days ago
[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 5 days ago

The children of today have no idea what it was like to go into a McDonald’s and see used ashtrays on the tables. And good for them. But holy shit, how did anyone ever have an appetite?

[-] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 31 points 5 days ago

Ugh, and the restaurants with the low half wall to separate the smoking and non smoking sections?

[-] darkfiremp3@beehaw.org 23 points 5 days ago

You are lucky if you get a half wall!

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I miss that. You would go to someone's indoor wedding, and one half of the room just would not be visible.

It gave the disco lights way more flair when passing through a high smoke cloud. Yes, we have fog machines now, but they're typically more to your knees, it's a different effect.

Plus you could tell which tables were discussing the heavy politics based on the thickness of the smoke above the table. The weakass smoke-free tables was where the dull-minded sat, saying nothing of consequence.

[-] dan1101@lemm.ee 63 points 5 days ago

I don't miss only having 3 channels to watch and having to be home at a particular time to watch something.

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[-] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 57 points 5 days ago

Getting paid by check instead of direct deposit.

[-] reallyzen@lemmy.ml 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I'm still getting paid by check.

France, public administration.

I moan absolutely every time, and then hold on to it as much as I can to fuck up their accounting because unclaimed checks whacks their balances. When they phone to complain I call them palaeolithic morons & ask them to fucking wire the money already. I think my record is three months (I don't work exclusively for them). Nice people and fun job otherwise but gosh, why the checks, seriously.

[-] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 5 days ago

They could at least fax you the checks to your home fax machine for convenience.

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[-] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago

Cable television.

Every time I visit my mom she has it on and I can't believe I spent an entire childhood putting up with that shit. I can't even watch it while I'm there. Too frustrating.

[-] nicerdicer@feddit.org 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Whenever I have a chance to watch cable tv occaionally, I am astonished how many commercials there are and that, before the inception of the internet, everyone put up with commercials that lasted for about 10 minutes. And seemingly still do.

Today, when using the internet exclusively, one gets annoyed by maximum when there is one single ad that slipped through the ad blocker.

[-] dsilverz@thelemmy.club 44 points 5 days ago
[-] Subtracty@lemmy.world 29 points 5 days ago

In my opinion, the bullying is still as alive as it ever was. Kids are just better at masking it. There is definitely more acceptance for LGBT, neurodivergent, and kids that would be considered outside the "norm" nowadays. But, teenagers have a strange capacity for cruelty to one another, it is just a different type of cruelty than past generations.

[-] Cattypat@mander.xyz 23 points 5 days ago

I'd also argue as someone thats experienced schooling more recently than many other Lemmy users, the methodology of bullying has changed. My parents always told stories of being physically assaulted by other kids as a form of bullying. My experience was being falsely reported for all sorts of crimes, funnily enough only to the school and never to actual authorities who could properly prove my innocence. Being accused of having and sharing drugs as well as death threats over anonymous messaging platforms is still most definitely bullying, though the style of violence and persuasion have changed.

[-] Subtracty@lemmy.world 14 points 5 days ago

I coach kids, and false reporting has become an issue recently. We take every report seriously and have to investigate/escalate each case individually. I have seen two different teenagers admit to maliciously reporting another kid when their stories were questioned or enough time had passed that they no longer felt vengeful toward the other person. The systems for reporting bullying/abuse/crimes are a huge step in the right direction from the past strategy of ignorance. I don't know how to impart to kids that false claims damage the entire social system we have in place for keeping them safe.

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[-] renzev@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago

School. I don't miss any of it.

You see movies and TV shows romanticising middle/high school a lot, as though it's all about parties, friends, hanging out, and getting into relationships. It's not that. Just an endless barrage of busywork with the occasional holiday.

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[-] alsimoneau@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago
[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 31 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I do not feel nostalgia for the information isolation and bottleneck prior to the late 90's, like needing the newspaper classified ads to find a job, music discovery was primarily limited to local FM radio (although I'm totally disenfranchised from streaming ads with a little bit of music added into the gaps), and cable TV as the only form of home entertainment. I am nostalgic for the age of ownership and citizenship. I hate neo feudalism and the corruption of the tech bro oligarchy, but I digress.

The fact that I can have New Pipe content filled with people holding masters and doctorate degrees while communicating in a layperson format is awesome. I can't imagine how terrible physical disability would have been if I couldn't take a break from a project, like right now, and feel like I'm in a casual conversation with a real group of people despite being in bed hurting. It lacks the same psychological depth as in person interchange, and people often fail to understand the depth or specificity of what am talking about here, but it is better than nothing by a long shot. The negativity of the average anon seems to get better with time in the present age. We are still not at a point where we can be wrong in a truly civil way and see value in people. We do not seem to process that we are all evolving and a growing mess of change at various levels, but we are getting there slowly and we are a long way away from the negativity of the early internet. So yeah, if this is the information age, I do not feel nostalgic about the previous information bottleneck.

[-] Subtracty@lemmy.world 15 points 5 days ago

Access to infinite knowledge from the internet, sitting right in everyones pocket. Sometimes, I will find myself talking to someone a few generations older than me. And they will say something along the lines of "I wonder how many..." and then just let the idea rest. Because they still act like they would have to go to a library to look up the fact. It amazes me! We don't have to wonder. I can look it up right now! It'll take me a few seconds.

Alternatively, I cannot stand when I am talking to someone and make a statement to which they respond: "I don't know..." or "I'm not sure if that's true". This is often a tactic I see older men use (often talking politics) to cast doubt on a younger or female person. And unfortunately, back in the day that was good enough to derail a conversation. Nowadays though... Don't believe me? Let's look it up. We don't have to take your word for it. People forget they can be fact checked in real time.

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[-] mp3@lemmy.ca 27 points 5 days ago

VHS tapes, and having to rewind them.

Although the ability to record almost anything on a cheap VHS tape was nice, now everything has copy protection.

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[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

Cassette tapes. Sure, they where handy and cheap, but the sound quality wasn't great and got worse the more you use it.

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[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 24 points 5 days ago

I don't miss having to have a separate device for digital photography. I remember having to pay 4 or 500 for a decent digital camera that fits in your pocket. When I got my first smart phone about 15 years ago, I took a picture with it and compared it to a decent Canon and a decent Fuji camera, that were one the best ones you could get in Best buy at the time for that budget. I compared the images and they sucked compared to my phone. Smh. Now my phone is around 4 or 500 and way better than basic digital cameras you can fit in your pocket, with way more functionality.

[-] enbyecho@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

I don’t miss dial-up internet,

Nobody "misses" 56kbit/s.

I don’t even like the sound because it’s just digital screeches

When I hear that sound now I am very briefly returned to the excitement I felt in the 90s. It was an age of wide-open possibilities, free from commercial influence. Full of patience and anticipation.

Oh well.

[-] Hugin@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

CRT displays. The day I replaced my old CRT with a LCD I thought I hope I never use one of these again.

[-] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 14 points 5 days ago

As trivial as it sounds, pornography.
Imagine having to pull out the trench from the winter drawer and drive to another town's smutt shop, so they don't recognize you, every time you feel like wanking

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 8 points 5 days ago

For a long time, I thought porno mags in bushes at parks was a ruse invented by the previous generation to confound the current

[-] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

Oh man. Finding porno mags in bushes as a kid was like finding buried treasure. Especially if the pages weren't sticky.

[-] blarth@thelemmy.club 6 points 4 days ago

Lemmy.ml leading up to the election.

[-] CeruleanRuin@lemmings.world 6 points 4 days ago

Reagan being president. No, not even now.

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[-] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

I don't miss being in my 20s. I was broke, miserable, sometimes homeless and kind of a shit. I had a lot of fun and good memories but my living situation was miserable.

[-] callouscomic@lemm.ee 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

My childhood. I don't understand people who do. Mine was mostly loneliness, confusion, trauma, emotional neglect, guilt, shame, some abandonment, some physical abuse, etc. Every day has been a step towards better than the previous. I don't want to or miss anything going backwards.

[-] Nexy 12 points 5 days ago

I actually miss that all the things take a wile to start or function. Im not happy with this fast life were all its instantly. That only give me anxiety.

[-] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 10 points 5 days ago

Changing CDs just to listen to a few songs from a different album. Also carrying around CDs.

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[-] folaht@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

H0w ppl usd 2 r8 in da 2000s

And the extremely crass culture that came with it.

[-] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 5 days ago

Gay jokes on TV. You know the kind. "it's funny because it's gay", very prevalent on series like Friends. Friends is a great show even today, but I do not miss the gay jokes.

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