Come again? 👂 🤚 : custardfist

[+] InquisitiveApathy@lemm.ee 81 points 2 months ago (1 children)

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[–] zr0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 2 months ago

Oh no, and @CustardFist@feddit.nl thought that all people came only because they looked them up on Lemmy.

Nah bro. Also, the community is public, accessible by even guests. It is your responsibility to moderate the content and it is not up to you to decide what has to be flagged and not. However, this particular comic is not really NSFW.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 69 points 2 months ago

I don’t follow you, but your stuff frequently shows up on my front page. I’m glad! However, as an act of courtesy to users who browse Lemmy at work, I think most of your posts should be tagged NSFW.

It might seem like overkill, but please remember the ridiculously conservative environments (and coworkers) that many people have to deal with. People have gotten fired over stuff like this.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 54 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Your posts can be seen in people’s feed. Please always mark NSFW stuff as NSFW.

Thank you

[–] Master@lemm.ee -5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If it is indeed nsfw. This comic isn't nsfw.

[–] Reddfugee42@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Your workplace must be unprofessional and immature

[+] CustardFist@feddit.nl -12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Yes, sure, but do you think this particular post is NSFW?

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 35 points 2 months ago

Would HR at a stuffy company call it NSFW? Then it’s NSFW. It doesn’t matter what you or I think.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 21 points 2 months ago

I wouldn't want to have this picture displayed on my phone at work/ on the bus

[–] astrsk@fedia.io 13 points 2 months ago

Well, you have evidence at least one person considers the subject matter to be NSFW, that should tell you what you need to know.

What I don’t understand is even if the report came from a follower, why would that matter? Why would you want to mock/shame a community member for helping report content? They didn’t have to do that and now if they see this post, might not be motivated to help improve the community (or other communities) as a result. Why would you want to discourage that?

(I don’t think) I’ve ever been part of this community and don’t recognize you or the work and found this post scrolling the front page on a different instance. While I’m not particularly one way or another about the source panel, I can certainly see why someone might feel it should marked NSFW.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 31 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Does this warrant an NSFW tag? Eh, I don't think so.

But just because this is your community doesn't mean you don't need NSFW tags in general. I'm not subscribed or following you (although I enjoy your comics) and I'm seeing this post in my primary feed. I generally block NSFW content because my kids occasionally pick up my phone and I don't want to have inappropriate content open. I wouldn't really want them reading this comment, but they probably wouldn't understand it even if they did.

[–] CustardFist@feddit.nl 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Really? Not subscribed, not following and yet I show up on your feed? That surprises me a little. Good to know, though. Thanks.

[–] JPAKx4@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm a "All" user (I like to see basically everything instead of just subscribed communities) so anything that was posted will be sorted and filtered based on your settings. For me it's the most liked posts in 12 or 6 hours. Because of this I absolutely see posts that are suggestive or NSFW and so I have to block communities or stop using Lemmy at work.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Same. I should really just curate my feed and stick with subscribed. I tell myself it's broadening, but usually just end up seeing porn next to headlines from Gaza, and it's all a bit much.

[–] abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yeah that seems to be how lemmy works. The default setting is basically "view all," (Everything), and individuals can subscribe and block communities as they see the content.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago

Same here, first time seeing your name or comics. No idea who you are.

I don't really subscribe to anyone though, I just block any community/user that I don't want to see and browse all so I don't miss anything.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Yep. I'm not sure how Lemmy works yet, but if there's any sort of algorithm, it has accurately figured out that I'm a fan, but I'm not actively following almost anyone yet.

[–] CustardFist@feddit.nl 24 points 2 months ago (6 children)

@BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz @Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world @InquisitiveApathy@lemm.ee @JPAKx4@lemmy.blahaj.zone @Master@lemm.ee @Nakoichi@hexbear.net @ProfessorOwl_PhD@hexbear.net @Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca @Reddfugee42@lemmy.world @SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world @_cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com @abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world @astrsk@fedia.io @chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com @jerkface@lemmy.ca @magnetosphere@fedia.io @propter_hog@hexbear.net @themeatbridge@lemmy.world @zr0@lemmy.dbzer0.com

Thank you all for responding. I've learned a lot.
I was completely unaware that my small sub gets shown on the front page.
When I first started posting on Reddit 5 years ago, I couldn't get a dog to even piss on my sub, unless I lured it in by cross posting to more populated subs. So Lemmy in 2025 works different than Reddit in 2020, I guess. ☺

With those none-following viewers in mind, I will rethink my NFSW-tag usage.

Again, thank you.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago

So Lemmy in 2025 works different than Reddit in 2020, I guess.

Appreciate the understanding and ability for self reflection, and this right here is exactly why we aren't on reddit lol

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 5 points 2 months ago

Thanks ! Keep up the good work !

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 4 points 2 months ago

You are very welcome!

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Thanks and subbed!

[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago

A major difference between reddit and lemmy is that on reddit people tend to only see what they are subscribed to, and on lemmy people tend to see everything their instance federates with. The reason for this is because the post quantity is orders of magnitude higher on reddit. If lemmy ever gets to that level, people will likely limit their feed to subscribed only.

[–] astrsk@fedia.io 1 points 2 months ago

That's a great mindset, keep it up!

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 2 months ago

Technically you show up in our "everything" feed, though I wouldn't be bothered enough to report. I just filter if it bothers me. Like I do with most sports communities...

[–] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 months ago

Well, is this is par for the course for your community, then yes, it should be properly flagged out of consideration for people who might run across it on the front page.

[–] ProfessorOwl_PhD@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

You realise your posts are distributed to the front-page of every instance that's federated with .nl, right? I'm pretty sure there's a setting to make it a private community, but until you turn it on none of this is limited to your subscribers.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

As this just showed up for me on my all feed without ever knowing about you before now I would say yes in general you should use NSFW tags for serial or sensitive content if you want people not to block your comm or defederate.

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm blocking this instance

It's annoying

[–] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago

Thanks for sharing?

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago

We don't.

[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 1 points 2 months ago

I thought the post was hilarious ¯\ˍ(ツ)ˍ/¯ I vote keep them coming