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It's not the kids, not the lurkers, not the mods... y'all just nice people. Lemmy's got a good vibe going... or at least enough windows that we can close if the vibe gets shit.

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[-] Lemondiesel@lemmy.world 108 points 1 year ago

Just deleted my reddit account. This is now my new scrolling home... lol

[-] Nima@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago

Same. Goodness I love this. It's so peaceful.

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[-] croobat@lemmy.world 52 points 1 year ago

I think it's just survivorship bias, kinda like mastodon. The people inclined to come here are probably anti-corporate, and sick of current social media's bullshit.

[-] CthuluVoIP@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

I think the barrier to entry also helps a bit. The folks willing to put up with the rough edges that Lemmy has are also likely willing to participate with the intent of making Lemmy a success rather than just "hangers on" as it were. With a 1600% growth in "active" user population, there are definitely a ton of lurkers, yet. Once it becomes more approachable, we'll see if the community feeling that Lemmy has begins to tarnish and fade as the volume of interaction and content rises.

[-] ulu_mulu@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was thinking the same, especially after seeing several posts "demanding" Lemmy to change this and change that.

I mean, that's not to say there's no room for improvements, but if the first thing some people do when going to a new platform is wanting changes to meet their personal way of doing things, instead to try and adapt first to how the platform works and learn from it, in my opinion it means those people are not really interested in being here and make lemmy succeed, they're just following the "flavor of the month" and won't last long here anyway.

I think the fediverse being not so intuitive might be a very good thing actually, it can act as a sort of filter so it doesn't succumb to the masses ruining everything, hopefully.

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[-] the_inebriati@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I have been thinking this over the past week on reddit every time I see a "Lemmy/Kbin needs to sort out X, Y and Z otherwise it's going to fail massively." or "Lemmy/Kbin is impossibly hard to use/sign up for". Usually with CAPITAL LETTERS and emojis.

Like... ok. I don't think you'll be missed with that attitude. At least for the time being.

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[-] tdawg@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago

prob cuz everyone who's still on reddit has the shit vibe

[-] GatoB@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I asked the people there some stuff and I got downvoted for everything I said and then I said something and they said unironically: whats wrong with being selfish? That made me a bit angry

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[-] biofaust@feddit.it 35 points 1 year ago

In Italy we call it "mountain path behavior": just like in our mountain paths, as long as it is few people you meet you behave cordially and in a friendly manner, but it changes when the number of people goes up.

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[-] violetgreendev@programming.dev 32 points 1 year ago

I know what you mean, it feels like we're all on an adventure together to discover what the new front page of the internet will be!

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[-] FinalBoy1975@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

It reminds me of internet forums of the days of yore that are long gone. People answering each other's questions. No need for moderators to have rules like, "don't call each other names" blah blah blah. It's kind of funny, but you know, the Internet had a dark age when everyone was nicer to each other. Lemmy brings that kind of social interaction back to the fore. In another stream, someone disagreed with me and did it nicely and I learned something. Give me more of THIS. And give me less of people replying with "this"

[-] maple@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lemmy reminds me of how Reddit felt between 2008 ~ 2013ish.

There seems to be a disproportionate number of longtime Reddit users defecting to Lemmy and I think that the self-selecting nature of Lemmites(?) is why there are such great vibes here.

Reddit is dead. Long live Lemmy!

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[-] ericbomb@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago

I mean the lack of ads DOES help though.

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[-] aStonedSanta@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

I’m hoping it takes off. It’s a confusing start but seems alright once you have a grasp.

[-] drivingcrooner@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

The grasp I’m trying to get ahold of is where to locate where everyone jumped ship to? Is there a master list or do you just gotta hunt and hope for the best?

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[-] DeImmortelPotato@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

Thank god I found Lemmy, because if I didn’t it probably would have only been a matter of hours before I caved and reinstalled Reddit on my phone at work.

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[-] mikemathia@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

Ahhhhhh. This feels better. shakes all the reddit off

[-] kagnus@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

we will be forever free of the existential burden of being redditors

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[-] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

It helps that it's a fairly small community, which gives it an old school internet forum vibe. Hopefully it retains this vibe as the site continues to grow.

[-] Veltoss@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I've been on the internet long enough to say it won't. It will last a long time depending on the design of the system that creates the communities (mods, upvotes/downvotes, rules, algorithms, etc), but even that is limited because eventually every community reaches the size it needs to to encourage toxicity, echo chambers, circlejerks, and attracting even more toxic people from outside the communities.

It took reddit many years to start reaching that point though, I hope it takes these federated sites longer. And hopefully due to their design, they can keep most of the toxic people isolated.

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[-] Spacebar@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Reddit is too popular and has too much group think, too many of the same types of comments that will get a lot karma, and too many comments that will just be ignored.

NEW is a garbage dump or a pile of duplicates. So why comment on a new post? It will never go anywhere. HOT is already full of comments, so your comment will just be lost.

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[-] S_204@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Lemmy kinda sucks for me right now. Laggy, buggy, awkward.... I love it. Looking forward to being part of its growth and development.

[-] veroxii@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

If people complain about the stability they were clearly not around for the early days of Reddit. It was flakey as hell.

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[-] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

I can't speak for everyone. I've been lurking for the past couple weeks and just signed up yesterday. The prevailing attitude I've noticed is that people realize just how much of a toxic hog lagoon reddit has become, and are glad to participate in a community that isn't. It's nice to be somewhere that isn't full of bots and doesn't coddle nazis.

I also think it helps that most of the onboarding literature is frontloaded with "this is how federation works" instead of jumping right in to "here's how you sign up and use lemmy." Effectively scares off the reading-averse.

If considering that to be a plus makes me an elitist, I'm ok with that.

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[-] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

Personally, and I am bias, I think everyone here is nice and chill because everyone who actually dropped Reddit are principled enough to not just say they hate a change and then do nothing about it.

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[-] PixelPlumber@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

I think it’s partly a selection effect of who bothered to come here. On the positive end, scrolling All is more likely to show things relevant to me I wouldn’t have found.

On the negative end there are few comments to interact wjth

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[-] NoKnowledge7965@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

For some reason, this place is just giving me late 2000s to early 2010s vibes.

[-] Rannoch@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

That's one of the things I've been most excited about so far - it sorta feels like I'm back on an old ~2005 forum again, it's weirdly nostalgic and nice!

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[-] PixelPlumber@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I think it’s partly a selection effect of who bothered to come here. On the positive end, scrolling All is more likely to show things relevant to me I wouldn’t have found.

On the negative end there are few comments to interact wjth

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

One time, when runescape did a supermassive bot ban, people began complaining that once crowded areas of the game felt eerily empty now that only real people were there.

Not to say reddit is all bots, but my experience with Lemmy so far has been that it’s less crowded but the people here feel very sincere. Not a terrible thing. Still have more scrolling and reading to do than I have time to do it, and the quality seems even better.

[-] Oswald@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

supermassive bot ban

The Muse cover that no-one expected

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[-] FizzOnMyJayce@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

Still getting used to all the different servers/instances but it’s promising

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[-] hmancuso@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

Not for any particular reason, but for a variety of reasons that work together to make it even better. I have listed just a few of them. Feel free to add to the list as you see fit.

  • No king of the hill.
  • No hidden corporate interests.
  • No karma system.
  • Rejection of toxicity. The flow of conversation is civil and has a good vibe.
  • The Federation functions as an engine of accountability.
  • A bunch of people who actively contribute to making this a good place.
  • A vocal community that actually determines what content is important.
  • The initial difficulty to make sense of it all (call it a "barrier to entry" if you will) acts as a natural deterrent to those who are less engaged.
  • Lurkers who sign up quickly feel comfortable posting.
  • The ability to sign up for a particular instance and leave if for some reason you find it's going in a direction you do not agree with. Lemmy's decentralized nature saves the day.
  • The influx of refugees includes experienced people with a lot of knowledge to make this an even better place.
  • The prospect of a quick release of reputable third-party apps. Since these developers bring solid knowledge from previous developments, their new Lemmy apps will immediately translate into a smoother user experience.

I am looking forward to great days ahead.

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[-] Hypersapien@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

The content is nice. The performance, not so much.

[-] ryno364@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Yeah it’s got some growing pains. Anything worth it’s salt will have growing pains.

Even Reddit did back in the day. Ya know back when Aaron Schwartz was running the show.

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[-] rimlogger@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.world is a bit slow for me RN but given the immense growth on Lemmy, it's to be expected. I'm still on Reddit but hopefully I get to see more niche content here! I read /r/CredibleDefense and /r/CombatFootage, would be great if they were on Lemmy too.

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[-] KingScoob@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Definitely a better vibe than reddit, and I really hope it stays this way! The community seems to be a lot more willing to have discussions, and comments don't just devolve into the same lame jokes that get repeated over and over.

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[-] Anonymau5@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I am really enjoying my time here

[-] jpants@lemmy.fmhy.ml 11 points 1 year ago

It feels fresh.. idk how to describe it

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[-] ghariksforge@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Platforms are fun in the beginning because everybody has a voice. This nurtures a lot of creativity and energy. However, as ad revenue starts to flow, advertisers demand that the platform banish fringe opinions and undesirable voices (the magic keyword is brand safety). As a result moderation ramps up, and kills the creativity and energy that made it fun and interesting.

This is why Lemmy works (for now).

[-] Mr_Buscemi@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So we got 10 years for the cycle to repeat if lucky?

I'm fine with that lol

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[-] sigh@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I guess you could say the particular reason Lemmy is so good right now is the friends we made along the way

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[-] wildeaboutoskar@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

It's that new colony optimism

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[-] beefstu@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Give it time... Once something gets enough attention people will look to make money off it. Enjoy it now

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[-] Cornpop@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Amen! It's a little slow but I'm perfectly fine with that! Everyone here is vibing for sure!

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[-] fidodo 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think it's because these are actual communities. The admins are just regular people you can talk to like normally. You choose your community. They're not faceless corporations and I think when a network is a corporation the platform gets less respectful conversation for understandable reasons.

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[-] BetaRebooter@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Newbie here after RIF went to Valhalla, I really hope this place grows and develops and people stay. I am enjoying it so far it reminds me of ol' forum days and Reddit of old, maybe I'm just being nostalgic but I just want this to work well and hope it's not just a short lived influx!

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