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A call for perverts to goon. Not even going to show the content.

Edit: Even kids younger than 15 y/o who have a smartphone use Whatsapp.

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[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 71 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I know WhatsApp is like the international standard but you all need to get off that shit. Meta should be boycotted globally.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 42 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don’t understand why this is just ok everywhere. People are swearing off American tech in droves, yet somehow this one gets a free pass.

[–] spaciouscoder78@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

FYI a lot of Indian government agencies use WhatsApp for their everyday operations. Most Indians don’t care about the US stuff, all they need is WhatsApp

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I still don’t get it. If WhatsApp is ok, why not Facebook messenger? Why not instagram dm’s? Meta alleges that WhatsApp is “encrypted”, but why would anyone believe that? Is “trust me bro” good enough for the government of a nuclear power? And yes I know the US is no better, but India’s government relying on a commercial product from an American spy company is bonkers. It would be like the the EU using WeChat.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The encryption happens client side, so it's easy to verify that it's happening.

Metadata sent with messages (who you're talking to, when the message was sent etc) isn't encrypted.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago

There’s still no reason to believe that they don’t have a back door to the message content. It’s closed source, and they’re an evil company whose entire business model is surveillance through lack of privacy. I know where I would put my chips.

[–] trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

The last time i haar fb messenger installed is years ago, but it used to drain the battery like crazy. Much more than whatsapp.

[–] spaciouscoder78@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

People are too ignorant to care about spyware and privacy. Can't do much about that.

[–] pir8t0x@ani.social 1 points 1 month ago

WhatsApp is at least E2EE but Instagram isn't even E2EE. Even Facebook Messenger is safer. Although, out of all the Meta apps, WhatsApp is the safest bet. I'm not necessarily promoting and saying you should use WhatsApp but just saying that it's a safer bet. If you want an actual privacy respecting messaging app, check out Signal. If you wanna be anonymous, use SimpleX Chat

[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Tell this to my family who thinks it is the most revolutionary piece of technology ever created and shun me to speak out. :(

[–] PokerChips@programming.dev 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Signal has group messaging too. Even has usernames.

Send out messages.. "hey install this privacy messaging app."

Then start making groups then start sending jokes and funny funny videos on the group messaging channels.

Must people will actually do their research when they see it and install it initially.

It's when you try to get people on it with one on one texting is when i find it the most difficult for adoption because you're the only person they will use it with.

Update:

Also, if you have maga friendly family that you still connect with (doesn't sound like the case for you if you're outside the US), just remind them that it's Trump's favorite messaging tool. Just don't invite the bad guys on to your channel then everything is daiseys.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

[Most] people will actually do their research when they see it and install it initially.

Will they though? Do you know most people? I doubt most people will do research. I think a large share of Lemmers will do the research. But we can be a different kind of people in certain aspects.

[–] Ofiuco@piefed.ca 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think a large share of Lemmers will do the research.

I doubt it, a lot of lemmy users just repeat ad nauseum whatever they read here but don't care about analysing it, understanding it or admitting everyone's context is different.

You can see it in this thread, just saying that everyone should quit everything meta they get their feeling of superiority, but ignore how hard it is to convince a common person to switch, try or upgrade whatever they use.

You can see it a lot on the linux vs windows discussions, most show 0 empathy or understanding when it comes to other's needs and use cases.

I see propaganda news from my country and it gets a lot of upvotes, nobody cares about researching why someone from the same country could get mad about it.

So yeah... I don't share your optimism about lemmy users.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

You're probably right. Even more to my point! People don't do research, in general. 😩

[–] PokerChips@programming.dev 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I'm my experience, Yes. I just say it's privacy oriented and when I say research, basically they will look up a search result or 2 and call it a day.

It's still not a silver bullet. People will text me on sms and I text back on signal. They start to get the picture.

But getting people on group chats are key. Still a long way to go because they aren't going through all this strategies when they create groups in other friends groups.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

[In] my experience

Anecdotal evidence might be uplifting but, alas, not really general proof. But I'm really glad you found a way to get people to switch! I see your persistence and it's impressive. ✊

[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Tried that 3 years and got called out as paranoid. 🥲

[–] neobunch@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I'll contend the biggest play Meta ever did was buying Whatsapp. They saw the app had reached critical mass and was an actual necessity, unlike their facebook crap which only appeals to a certain subset of people.

And now we're all stuck with it and Meta's enshitification and progressive privacy violations.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Some of those pictures look very young, too

[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ikr. At this point I won't even be surprised if it is some fat ass uncle who is into pedophelia handling this shit who shits his RSS-BJP (nazis of India) propaganda to others.

[–] kionite231@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Meta trying to replace pornhub and onlyfans

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Otherwise they wouldn’t have pirated thousands of porn movies

[–] zout@fedia.io 18 points 1 month ago

TIL Whatsapp has channels.

[–] trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Are these ladies of negotiable affection, or is it like onlufans advertising?

[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Honestly... I don't even know. Looking at the quality of images most of them seem fake channels — the original images seem to have been scraped from personal FB/Insta or some malicious app on someone's phone that has full gallery access or maybe ex-boyfriends making their lives a hell. But some of them... yes, they seem Onyfanish type accounts who later start promoting some small brands to make a buck. Most of these channels seem to come from small towns and tier 2 cities.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

TIL you can click updates for shit like this.

I sincerely thought WhatsApp was just a pure messaging service. Using it for years and never once clicked that.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

TIL too. I just checked it and apparently Billie Eilish and Indian Cricket Team are top in my recommends. I'm indifferent to Billie Eilish and I don't watch cricket.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I hate channels very much but my hatred for the channels recomendation is unparalleled, and I'm not even indian

[–] milk@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Just checked and this is mine and its worse.

[–] DoomProphet@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

Is that the exchange rate? Goon twice for every prayer

[–] NeedyPlatter@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

I guess we know where all the porn data Meta torrented went to...

[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 4 points 1 month ago

Having recommended channel on a direct messagerie app is infuriating enough. But they always find a way to have us even more mad.

[–] khubsuratinsaan@en.osm.town 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@sonofearth 0 idea why they are doing this. I am getting the same recommendations even after using Ublock Orgin and everything for years. Shouldn't about half of the users be actually female?

[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I think maybe because majority of the popular channels are either Bhakti Channels, News Outlets or this bullshit. And they just want people to get hooked to the constant dopamine from religious propaganda, Godi Media's political propaganda and Attention capitalization of Sex Deprived people in a country where sex is a Taboo. These are the factors that help them strengthen their position in this country. You can see it on other Meta Platforms as well. Most of the content over there is similar.

[–] affenlehrer@feddit.org 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

At lot of poo related stuff

[–] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A Pooja is a sort of ceremonial prayer. It's also a common name associated with some actresses who were or are attractive.

As an aside theres a movie "Khabie Kushi Khabie Gum" with a character named Pooja living in the UK. The filmmakers decided should have the nickname (drumroll please) Poo. No, it is not possible to take seriously.

[–] affenlehrer@feddit.org 2 points 1 month ago

Thank you for explaining

[–] pir8t0x@ani.social 2 points 1 month ago

People actually pay attention to these?! 💀

[–] Uri@infosec.pub 2 points 1 month ago

God! few weeks ago i saw one with child porn🤦🏻‍♀️

[–] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 month ago

I'm from Germany and I get recommendations for all kinds of German police forces (for each major city). Added to that, I often get channels for microwave recipes or random channels underage teenagers have created.

What a great system!

[–] pewpew@feddit.it 1 points 1 month ago

I get reccomended slop for kids, not AI slop, actual human slop content

[–] SlothMama@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] sonofearth@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Indian Smuts slop.

[–] spykee@lemmings.world -2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Not only is this disgusting, but the lack of gay fodder is appalling!
You guys are like the most crowded people on this planet, sure there are shit-ton of gay dudes amongst you. Why leave that market out?
Is it criminal/illegal to love cocks in India?

[–] shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Not formally criminalized but socially stigmatized Im sure.

But I'm also sure theres a Hrithik Roshan jerk off channel somewhere on there too, dont worry.