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Me and my also transfem partner got married last week on the fourth anniversary of our relationship. I haven't changed my name yet, but I plan to take her last name at the same time as I change my first name, and if I do it soon enough it's cheaper and easier. So now I'm on a clock to get ready for that. Wish me luck!

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[–] ora@midwest.social 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We just got legally married on Friday

[–] Mk23simp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago
[–] Robyn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You go girl! So happy for ya! ^^

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 days ago

Congrats sis!! Slay on your marriage!!

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago
[–] GooseGang@beehaw.org 14 points 2 days ago

Congratulations!! I’m glad you’re able to change your name easier :) and hoping your marriage is emotionally supportive and you both (continue to) have fun together for the eons to come.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 12 points 2 days ago

CONGRATION 🤩🥳🥳🥳

[–] cathray@feddit.org 4 points 2 days ago

So happy for you! 🥳 Good luck on everything!

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 days ago

Congratulations!