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My mom added, "Why aren't you having children?"

[–] alternategait@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

“What did you expect”

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

“Why do you cut off all your hair and try to look like a boy?”

I just like having a mohawk dude

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 week ago

Mohawks always looked better on women anyway.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

wont talk to you or take you seriously

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Oooo! A close cousin is the not believing or agreeing with something (like at work), then months later having it as their own novel idea.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've had this so badly in the past >:-(

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Boo - that sux. I'm here to comiserate with if you ever need.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you, I'm happy to say I'm in a better place now!

How about you?

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I run my own business. They have to listen to me now. 😉

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Ha! Well done :-)

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 week ago

I used to let them get away with that crap too. 💔

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 15 points 1 week ago

"I wasn't hitting on you, I just wanted to talk." "What's the matter? Can't take a compliment?" "I can cure you of that <lesbianism|asexuality|...>." "Remember when guys could just be guys?" "Why don't those fucking bitches want to date me?" "Hysterical much?" "Calm down." "Must be that time of the month." "That's just how men are." "Why didn't you report it sooner/leave/fight back?" "You're pretty smart for a girl." "Not all men!"

...

I may have been thinking on this kind of language too much. I shouldn't be able to dump all that so quickly.

[–] HaphazardGuess@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

"I believe you, but I've known him longer so I am going to stay friends with him"

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago

In other words "I don't care about you at all"

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 week ago

Someone saying effectively that to me found out the hard way that this is how you get isolated to only dealing with the assholes in your life.

[–] UnculturedSwine@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"you'd be so much prettier if you smiled more"

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

also, "don't smile like an idiot".

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

"Fucking bitch"

"This poor innocent white man was cancelled for being a rapist"