I've encountered it very little, but when I encounter it it's because I try to do something and it doesn't work. So I check the permissions with ls -l, and it all seems reasonable. Huh, this should work. Try again, nope. Hmm. 20 minutes of trying random variations, strange results. Oh fuck, is this SELinux? Shit. Where do those configs exist again? How do I configure that? Google "SELinux cheat sheet" hmmm, I don't have enough context to use that, Google "SELinux getting started". Read tutorial, try to skim just enough to figure out what's going wrong for me.
So I don't hate it, I just haven't ever had a use for it, but it has surprised me in a bad way before and cost me a lot of time and confusion, but I've never spent the time getting familiar because I've never had a use for it. And it comes up rarely enough I never remember anything about it by the time it bites me. I can't even recall now what I was trying to do the last time I bumped into it.