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Do they show them victim picture or like really gruesome crime scenes so they can desensitize?

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[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I've seen a bunch of dead bodies. You live long enough, people die, funerals happen. That's kind of routine.

I also found a coworker who died at work.

I was his supervisor. He had taken Monday & Tuesday off to work on his house with his brother. On Wednesday I got a call from the police where he lived. He was supposed to meet up with his brother on the previous Saturday, but he never showed up. The police called me to ask me to check if he was in his office.

He had stayed late on the Friday before his time off and died there.

That workday was pretty much over at that point. I'm not sure I needed any kind of training to deal with it. Not really sure what form that training would take.

I had a week or two where I would see his body when I closed my eyes.

It was natural causes. He was in his sixties, and he was pretty much a functional alcoholic.

He had a GI bleed. We found out later that he had an appointment scheduled to see a doctor about it. From what we pieced together afterwards, he had been vomiting &/or shitting blood and hiding it. He should have gone to the ER, but I'm not surprised he didn't.

I do kind of have most other managers beat when it comes to tough supervisory situations.

[–] Patnou@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you mind me asking what you do?

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I work in Healthcare IT.

[–] Waterpumpee@lemmus.org 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

shitting blood doesnt mean anything. If its like fresh, could be hemorrhoids. 60s is way early to go, considering retirement is from 70 here and presidents start at 70 in the US. But i guess thats what alcohol does to you.

[–] yilian@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 hours ago

Wiping your ass and finding blood from a hemorrhoid is not the same as shitting blood.

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 6 points 23 hours ago

You should not be shitting blood. If you are shitting blood, that means something

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When i was in the police (UK) we did crime scene training, and a few hours of it involved talking about how we can try and cope when seeing a dead body for the first time.

The advice we were given is that basically they are no longer a person. They are a fleshy meat sack which we should consider as being evidence of a potential crime. We were told to ignore the body and concentrate on the scene.

What can we see/smell/hear. Document everything. Were lights on/off, were doors locked/unlocked. Windows open/closed. Smashed glass on the inside of the house or the outside.

It didn't matter if it was suspicious or not. We were reminded we weren't detectives, we weren't there to solve a murder, just secure evidence.

And it worked. Found a dead person on my second day. She, like every other sinilar job I'd been to had died of natural causes. But I remembered my training and just did my job.

Other cops would rely on humour. Ignore the corpse, crack jokes.

And yes, we were shown pictures of incredibly gruesome scenes. My favourite was the embolism, looked like a scene from Saw.

[–] Klear@piefed.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Found a dead person on my second day.

Holy shit that was fast. Or is it that common?

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] KubrickFR@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] SatyrSack@quokk.au 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] KubrickFR@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

This was at least true until August 20th, 1909 [source]

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago
[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Some slower than preferred. Some far earlier.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Haha no. Most people who died from natural causes were found by family members and we wouldn't be involved.

We would generally only attend if the death was untimely (like a healthy young person), if there had been an "accident" or if the paramedics thought something didn't seem right.

We were only called on this occasion because it started as a concern for safety call for an elderly person and we were needed to force entry. Knew pretty much straight away that it wasn't suspicious, (doors locked with keys on the inside/windows closed/no signs of a struggle etc).

As a trainee I needed the experience with all different types of job so my tutor would cherry pick incidents and take us to stuff like this to broaden what I was exposed to.

[–] lath@piefed.social 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Considering cops barely get any training at all these days and it took decades to even consider PTSD as a possibility for armies, I'd lean towards nah.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Some police forces take training very seriously; perhaps not where you live, admittedly, but not all police forces are equal.

[–] lath@piefed.social 1 points 1 day ago
[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Are you asking about seeing a dead person or seeing someone naked?

As far as cops I can’t speak for all departments but most police departments barely get taught to shoot a gun ,so they aren’t seeing corpses to desensitize them.

For the US Army no on dead people as a whole, but for nudity, you are nude around each other all the time during basic training. It is comical watching the dudes get all worked about it who can’t handle it.

There are MOS (Military Occupational Speciality) that deal with dead bodies and work in surgeries etc, so they will be exposed to dead people.

[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The US is weirdly sensitive about nudity. It's weird.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

It really is.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 0 points 20 hours ago

it's because being reminded of the weakness of their flesh disgusts them.

[–] rah@hilariouschaos.com 3 points 1 day ago

the first time they see an adult body?

I'd be very concerned if a sighted police officer had never seen an adult.

[–] Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca -5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm sure neither do anything to prep..maybe cops.l but even then I doubt it. more important things to need to learn/focus on.

cops... they just go on vacation/leave until the next one. eventually they don't care or they keep milking it everytime.

soldiers... grow some balls and get the hell over it and continue your mission or else you'll be next..