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So my friends have been kinda bad about gendering and naming me correctly, well I gendered myself correctly in a story and one switched back to she/her/mam immediately. So idk if he thought I wasn't doing the whole trans thing anymore (??) or what but at least he's back to gendering me properly. I'll try harder to correct tomorrow too.
Misgendering all happens so fast sometimes
Canines are so cool cuz no matter how u gender them it just rolls right off of them and they just look at u like this
I wish I was a real dog
I had this idea of researching scientifically about trans things and actually trying to make cool content out of it, like maybe in video format or in written form? But idk, sounds like a lot, I want organize a lot of info and content about how the human body works and explain things related to being trans, investigate claims, find sources and try to put together some useful info.
Maybe I would start with explaining hormones in general, then more specific stuff, like how having high E supresses T in more detail and stuff like that, then move on to other things and tangential topics.
spoiler On this weekend I got to live out one of my sexual fantasies and it was way hotter than I ever thought it could
I really like the idea of giving a blow-job/cock-warming/being face-fucked with hands restrained behind the back. As a genre of porn it usually a cis woman doing that to a cis man (gross).NSFW CW Sex
But this weekend my girlfriend and I hosted another trans woman. We had a lot of amazing sex, but at one point I got to do this, with my hands cuffed behind my back, with a fluffy blanket thrown over the top, while my girlfriend potted about the room fixing something and chatting to the other girl. It was so hot, I'm gagging and spluttering, tears streaming down my face, (pretend) completely ignored. So hot.
All of us being trans, my girlfriend being there, it all made it so much nicer too. :::
Also from a AuDHD point of view...
...it's really nice to just focus on doing one job really well with no distractions and not having to worry about where my hands are.
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i never know what to do with my hands 
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Solved with one neat trick!
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Need to dom my partner into learning how to dom me lmao
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I'm a switch but since transitioning I'm much more of a top/domme. My girlfriend is a bottom/subby, and it's very nice. But this other girl is more of a top, so that was a nice change of pace and we had some interesting combinations.
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That's so hot and hits several things for me, the way you've described it genuinely sounds like a fantasy come to life. Sounds like a good weekend. Hell yea.
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And that was just one of like a dozen horny little vignettes. We're planning on making this a regular thing catch-up too. Very exciting.
Fucking green with envy
One day it will happen to you Bounti, there's decades where no T4T happens, and weeks where decades of T4T happens.
I've been having a few of those weeks myself 
How it feels to eat damn near an entire days calories in one dinner
meat
(4 patty burger, waffle fries, Mac and cheese, chocolate shake)
Was soooo fucking good partially because I haven't eaten a ton else today. So fat and happy now.
Also glad you got a nice big and satisfying meal
This needs a spoiler and cw for meat per the CoC
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I put my hair up to shape my eyebrows and omg where did this hairline come from??? I've gotten so much new growth where I have had no hair for the majority of a decade. I had fine little vellus hairs there for like a year or two after successfully suppressing my T and applying minoxidil there on and off for a few years, but they had only finally begin to look like they had converted to terminal hairs a few months ago maybe. I did resume minoxidil in the beginning of this year I believe, but fell out of the habit a month or two ago and was worried that the growth would slow down but omg it has not, at least not noticeably. And the now 2-4cm long hairs there have completely transformed my hairline which I didn't even notice because it has been hiding behind bangs.
This is also starting to become noticeable for me. My hairline wasn't bad or anything but definitely clocky. 
I get a few cm back from the T goblins.
I'm really moving in less than two weeks. Kind of crazy. I'm having so many memories of things come up as the date gets closer.
First place I ever felt safe in, so it's a bit weird to leave, but I'm looking forward to what's next :>
Listening to Black Dresses today.
Good luck! Im in the process of moving right now and it always sucks.
Yeah, it does. I saw your update and have been feeling a lot of the same stress over the last week. I've been trying to do as much as possible ahead of time, but unfortunately some things just have to wait. I'm in a lull now of needing to wait a bit to ship the last few things.
I hope things go as smoothly as possible for you from here on!
Congrats! I'll be honest I forget the details of your move but I am happy for you. It's exciting. I am moving in a few weeks too.
Thank you! I'm moving from one side of the country to the other, so quite a big move lol. Are you moving far?
It's similar, it's a full days drive. To a better state, and from rural to a city.
from rural to a city.
Moving from a shithole to a lib city is a canon trans experience congrats
Thank you! I am definitely excited about it.
Why are our trans friends always having stupid fights and drama between eachother :(
Oh no, that's the worst. Have you tried talking to them about it?
It doesnt directly involve us and were not at all in a headspace to be an interlocutor, were just trying to stay away from it and not upset ourself more. May try asking the ppl involved if theyre ok once were semi-sure its cleared up a bit 
I totally get that, these things can get so messy. I hope it clears up soon! 
<3
gay
How do I be gay and be gayly gay and find people to be gayly gayest gay with? 
gay: gay
Queer discord servers and hexbear are how I met pretty much all of my friends and my girlfriend. Just trying to find people to play games with has gone a long way in my life. Two of my friends got married a bit ago and only became friendly over playing Among Us lol. Finding similar interests and putting yourself out there goes a long way (as scary as that can be).
This is the most anxiety inducing movie Ive ever seen
I feel like I need a cig after this one
it's so fucking good. no, i will never watch it again
my dad and i saw it in theaters as walkups (it was either that or Knives Out) and continually throughout I would turn to look at him like 
Exactly what I said when I saw it.
says the most absurdly lovey-dovey dialogue ever
but its all role-play
0_0 <--- touch starved maiden having trouble keeping her emotions in check